by Hilary Horn
February, but more distinctly, Valentine’s day, can create a variety of emotions for different people in all walks of life. For my kids, it’s about hearts, candy and receiving little notes at school. For couples, it may be a special date, beautiful flowers or a treat together. For singles, I’ve experienced “galentines” where you just create a fun space with friends. No matter what stage or age, it can be a special month to create spaces of hospitality, connection and celebrate the love you have between you, your spouse, and your friends & family. Even if it creates a pang of isolation or loneliness, no matter your age or stage in life, Valentine’s Day can be celebrated because of God’s great love.
All love stories, no matter if it’s a platonic friendship or with a partner have a chance to embody virtues, but above all we can practice love. These aren’t hasty experiences. Often when we cultivate friendship and love they are long journeys. They need time, care, commitment, and humility.
Try this fun activity. When you think of the definition of love in 1 Corinthians 13, ask yourself how you can be this way towards those you are trying to build a deeper connection with. Get nitty gritty with each word that describes Love. Make it really attainable in the month of February. No matter if it is a spouse, a dear friend or a new one!
Here’s some ideas:
Patience: Embody listening by attentively paying attention to whoever is talking with you. If someone easily frustrates you, take a pause to ask why and think of a way to practice patience with them.
Kindness: Help someone out that you have never met with a practical need. It could be as simple as helping reach something on a shelf at a grocery store, volunteering for something when someone is overwhelmed or doing a chore at home that isn’t your typical responsibility.
Not Envious: Take space to do some soul care and ask where you may be envious of others? Dig deep to understand why and ask the Lord how you can let that go and practice gratitude for what you do have.
Not Proud: Another opportunity where you can ask the Lord where you may be prideful. If you’re brave, ask your spouse! Creating some humble learning and work towards maturity.
Not rude: Smile more! Put your phone away when you are engaging with someone.
Not Self-seeking: At your workplace, how can you help out in a new way that isn’t just for a promotion or recognition? How can you serve in a way that is unseen?
Not Angered: Next time you experience something that upsets you, take a breath and ask yourself why. Instead of immediately responding out of emotion, give yourself a 1 minute “timeout” to collect yourself.
No records of wrongs: Have you been tallying wrongs in your head towards your spouse or friend? Next time someone offends or hurts you, speak about it out right away. Don’t fester until you blow up on them.
Not delight in evil: Think of the media you may be consuming and how it may not be best for entertainment.
Rejoices in truth: How can you be more authentic in relationship and towards yourself? Learn about your values and how to walk freely in them. Meditate on a scripture this month.
Protects: Volunteer at your kids school. Advocate for the more vulnerable this month or serve at a nonprofit like a homeless shelter.
Trusts: Encourage open communication even when it is difficult. Do an activity with a loved one that will build connection, trust and intimacy even if it is a simple walk or a fun experience at an Escape Room!
Hopes: Recognize the uncertainty, but create goals! This can give you action steps and hope as you walk into something that may seem difficult.
Perseveres: Write down a way you can connect with someone each week that you want to foster a more meaningful relationship. Easy things are texting a friend to set up a time to meet for coffee, call a relative to check in and see how they are doing, plan a date night with your spouse.
Never fails: The more space and time we take to create moments of connection and to love others, the more we work towards a successful and loving relationship. It’s not all fluffy hearts and rainbows, but it takes intentionality and work! Fun work! Hard work! Good work!
To help you out on your journey of connection you may find these toolbox couple questions and weekly navigating questions will help reinforce and build strong foundations for you and your partner. They are something both my husband Trevor and I have implemented in our lives. We have seen deeper connection, growth and intimacy together because of it!
These questions have been designed to help build a deeper meaningful connection between couples of any age whether the newly married or seasoned couple. Grow in your communication, voicing your needs and making sure you both are on the same page each week! Sometimes in relationships we forget to ask the important questions and take time to listen intently with our partner. These questions have been carefully thought through, and they encourage you to look within yourself and enjoy meaningful conversations that can have a real positive impact on your relationship and future.
Use these tools and think through ways you could implement 1 Corinthians 13 in your action plan this upcoming February! Celebrate love month with intentionality and deeper connection!
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Today’s post is coming to you from the Finding Your Thinplace Retreat at The Bishop’s Ranch in beautiful Healdsburg, CA. We spent time together reflecting on John 15 and God’s love for each of us, then we actually spent time in the vines at Hawley Vineyard and Winery.
“I am the Real Vine and my Father is the Farmer. He cuts off every branch of me that doesn’t bear grapes. And every branch that is grape-bearing he prunes back so it will bear even more. You are already pruned back by the message I have spoken.
4 “Live in me. Make your home in me just as I do in you. In the same way that a branch can’t bear grapes by itself but only by being joined to the vine, you can’t bear fruit unless you are joined with me.
“I am the Vine, you are the branches. When you’re joined with me and I with you, the relation intimate and organic, the harvest is sure to be abundant. Separated, you can’t produce a thing. Anyone who separates from me is deadwood, gathered up and thrown on the bonfire. But if you make yourselves at home with me and my words are at home in you, you can be sure that whatever you ask will be listened to and acted upon. This is how my Father shows who he is—when you produce grapes, when you mature as my disciples.
9-10 “I’ve loved you the way my Father has loved me. Make yourselves at home in my love. If you keep my commands, you’ll remain intimately at home in my love. That’s what I’ve done—kept my Father’s commands and made myself at home in his love. John 15:1-10
Each one of us is invited by God to be a part of His Body or as in this passage a part of His vine. The invitation is one that is one of love. It is an invitation of perfect love that is offered – yet it is also a love gift that has to be personally accepted. When one offers a gift to another we trust that the gift will be received, taken and opened. There are many different reasons for gifts to be given and there are also different responses to different gifts as they are received. Sometimes we may feel that there is an ulterior motive or a certain response that is required when a gift is given or a gift is received. How is it with God then when we consider the Scriptures? We often talk about God’s unconditional love and how it is that one can embrace this love from God. As I was pondering God’s love in this passage, I decided to think about what love looks like and ended up with many descriptive words of love. I am going to share 26 of them as I wrote them down.
A – God’s love is an affectionate love which cherishes
B – God’s love is a beautiful love which creates beauty from ashes
C – God’s love is a cherishing love which holds each one close to His heart
D – God’s love is a destined love that secures eternity for His children
E – God’s love is an eternal/everlasting love that outlives one’s earthly life
F – God’s love is a freeing love as it allows one to let go of fears
G – God’s love is a grieving love as He embraces our earthly grief as well as He grieves over the issue of Sin
H – God’s love is a holistic love as it allows us to embrace the ‘presence of holy healing’ in our lives
I – God’s love is an infinite love as it is for all at all times, forever available
J – God’s love is a just love – offered unconditionally to anyone who seeks it
K – God’s love is a kindred love as Jesus experienced humanity here on earth
L – God’s love is a loyal love, a love that will never let one down or let one go
M – God’s love is a magnificent love – beyond understanding
N – God’s love is a nestling love – inviting one to snuggle in His arms
O – God’s love is an open love – He openly receives anyone who comes to Him
P – God’s love is precious – His Son came to live on earth to show His precious love
Q – God’s love is a quality love – it has infinite dimensions
R – God’s love is a radical love – it cost the Father and His Son separation for a time
S – God’s love is a shared love – God shared His Son with the world
T – God’s love is a touching love – it reaches and touches the most broken
U – God’s love is an undying love – it goes on forever and ever – it is eternal
V – God’s love is a victorious love – it takes all power away from sin
W – God’s love is a wise love – it offers healing, wholeness and forgiveness to all
X – God’s love is an (e)xtraordinary love – totally forgives all/any sin
Y – God’s love is a yearning love – it is able to draw anyone into God’s love
Z – God’s love is a zealous love – it seeks anyone, everyone, anywhere.
Yes, God’s love is so incredible that it is beyond all the descriptive words one can find in any/all languages. Yet it is sweet, totally forgiving and healing, and makes beauty from the most broken personal human vessel. Yes, there are times when it may seem as if God’s love is not present or at least not present as one would like it. It is at those times when we one seems so alone that trust and faith is necessary – and maybe one even needs someone to come alongside to affirm God’s presence and care.
As we are approaching a celebration of love for many, I encourage each of us to take some time to think about giving God a love gift. How might that be done? A few years ago, Valentine’s day was on Sunday. Before our congregants arrived, I placed blank hearts on each seat. In my sermon I talked about God’s love for each one of us and then challenged us to think about what we wanted our valentine to say if we gave one to God. During our fellowship time after the service there were stickers and markers at the altar for them to decorate or write on their hearts. As I was packing up my things after wards there were several hearts laying on the altar. As I picked them up and looked at them they were from all the children in our church – with coloring, writing if they could etc. What was most precious is each child had put their name on there creation. They took me literally and left their valentines at the altar as they recognized it as a place of God’s presence. As I close today you have a few days to consider this idea – why not make a valentine for God to share with Him and tell Him how much His love means to you.
God, we love You so much. It is hard to think of giving You a valentine – it may seem a bit frivolous. Today we want to also receive a special infilling of Your love to share with our family, friends, neighbors and with people who are not yet our friends. In Jesus Name, Amen.
Writing and photos by June Friesen. Scripture from The Message.
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I recently enjoyed the blessing of attending the Godspace Following the Star Retreat led by Christine Sine and Lilly Lewin. It was facilitated with such hospitality and inclusion, a gentle creative approach to what can be a somewhat daunting feeling at the beginning of a new year, with all of the expectations we tend to build up about what we are finally going to achieve.
We were encouraged to make New Year’s intentions instead of resolutions, which felt like more of an invitation towards contemplating possibilities and encouraging a more focussed awareness of what is truly important to us, to guide the way forward. It was wonderful to hear from Christine and Lilly as well as the sharing of participants in such a way that we felt as though we were in one room, not separated by continents and borders.
Afterwards, this got me to thinking about affirmations for the year ahead and as I got started I almost couldn’t stop writing! In South Africa we have been having ongoing load shedding (blackouts) which can last for 2 and up to 4 hours at a time where we live. And this can go on throughout the day depending on which stage of load shedding we’re in, with sessions in the morning, afternoon, evening and on and off throughout the night. I particularly felt it would be helpful to go back to affirmations in the light of this situation (or lack of light!) in our country. It is that one extra thing that can cause me to feel tired when I can’t do the things I need electricity for and must come up with another plan! As my husband Karl says, we need to practice the Serenity Prayer at this time. “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.” I can practice peace and gratitude, learning to rest in Jesus, knowing he has our lives in the palms of his hands. And one of the ways I can do that is by making a list of affirmations to help me centre myself in God.
May this list of 101 Joyful Affirmations be a blessing to you and may you be inspired to write your own affirmations for the year, keeping them in sight together with your New Year’s intentions and words for the year. These all help us to keep our true north in Spirit as we continue abiding in the heart of God for us, guiding us faithfully through it all.
- I abide in the centre of God
- I shed the weight of the past
- I practice the fine art of being and becoming
- I belong in God’s love
- I live intentionally
- I make time for positive movement
- I eat mindfully in support of health
- I release what hasn’t happened yet
- I embrace what God is doing
- I love myself supportively
- I come up with good ideas
- I intercede for my family, friends, my nation and the world
- I am curious to learn new things
- I make space for reading
- I take time to appreciate nature
- I am aware of God’s creation
- I make room for God to move
- I am open to miracles
- I listen to others carefully and with presence
- I listen more than I speak
- I am not in a hurry to get somewhere
- I spend, save and give money wisely
- I am thoughtful of others
- I do not try to fix what’s not mine to fix
- I laugh often and heartily
- I do not partner with depression
- I am open to new ways of doing things
- I am not rigid in my ways
- I release past offenses and regrets
- I forgive and let go
- I hold sacred my precious memories
- I nurture all forms of hope
- I am available for God’s desires
- I listen to the Holy Spirit daily
- I breathe deeply and well
- I worship from my heart
- I don’t do things out of obligation
- I make wise choices and decisions
- I enjoy the simple things of life
- I make time for what is important to me
- I celebrate the beauty of life
- I ease into the day without striving
- I sleep deeply and well
- I receive wisdom from my dreams
- I am open-hearted
- I live in a clear space, free of clutter
- My friendships are fulfilling
- I make room for creative expression
- I am calm and peaceful
- I trust in Jesus
- I step out and take risks
- I am not easily angered
- I lean back into grace
- I am open to receive
- I am self regulated
- I am present to the now moment
- I will not worry about the future
- I live more slowly and mindfully
- I come to Jesus for rest
- I listen to sound wisdom and advice
- I am confident and capable
- I am well-balanced
- I make room for connection
- I take a step back before responding
- I follow inspiring mentors
- I encourage as a daily practice
- I bless others generously
- I engage in joyful prayer practices
- I do not restrict myself by past expectations of what is possible
- I am open to enter new doors of opportunity
- I accept myself graciously
- I depend upon the goodness of God
- I am close to Jesus
- I share my gifts and talents without restriction
- I embrace a teachable humble spirit
- I learn from others
- I grow in wisdom and grace
- My paths are ordered by the Lord
- I look forward to God’s best plans for my future
- There is no obstacle holding me back
- God is generous towards me
- I have more than enough to give generously
- I do not fret for it leads only to evil
- I live in harmony with God’s purposes
- God has plans to prosper and not to harm me
- I live a blessed life
- I belong in the kindness of God
- I live in alignment with God’s heart
- I practice daily rhythms of grace
- There is more than enough time for everything
- I see from a broader perspective
- I live in God’s best plans for today
- I will see the puzzle pieces come together
- People’s intentions towards me are good
- I live from a joyful centre
- I delight in small and delicate things of beauty
- I make time for silence and quiet
- I listen to inspiring uplifting music
- I connect deeply with my family
- I look forward to surprises
- Anything is possible!
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Pen and Paint Ponderings with Karen and Karen
by Karen Wilk (writer) and Karen Tamminga-Paton (painter)
Before you read the reflection below, we invite you to take a moment to contemplate the artwork. Pause and reflect, and notice your own observations about the work and what thoughts it sparks in you. Then read the poem below.
Goodness, Gentleness and Patience Rest on Main.
Do they?
In the midst of pain
Violence, addiction
Garbage, decay, dereliction?
Where is GOODNESS
When the market, the climate,
Our neighbourhood, our health
The whole world seems bad?
Could goodness be found
In the smile an old lady on a bench bears
In an open gesture that welcomes and shares
In the bright yellow, the dandelion growing up through the crack, wears?
Indeed goodness sits with arms folded in her lap
Contented, present, attentive to what ere she might meet
For Creator
And all Creation
Are good
Very good…
Thus Goodness rests in orange
– with slippered feet.
Goodness, Gentleness and Patience Rest on Main.
Do they?
Where is GENTLENESS
Amongst harsh words, raised fists,
Racists and riots,
Bigots, bullies…
So much injustice, fear and hate.
What could be gentle in this sorry state?
How could the beauty of ruby red, and hidden hands
rest—and make a difference…
Shift the sands,
Calm the storm
Calm in the storm?
Tenderness in the rough?
Kindness dispelling meanness
Grace forgiving offenses
Disarming
Charming
Salt and pepper hair
Fruit of the Spirit
Embodied in the midst of it all
Gentle
Friendly
For us not against us…
Like a grandmother.
Goodness, Gentleness and Patience Rest on Main.
Really?
Like a grandfather
Resting on his walking stick
Leaning forward
Observant
Patient
Patience on Main
Through all the street’s changes
The world’s changes,
Life stages…
Still
Expectant
Trusting
Full of gratitude
For in all the mystery
In all the questions
In all the what ifs and why not’s
God rests among us.
WITH US
IN US.
As human frailty, failure and faultiness are made new
In the good and gentle ways
Of patient Love
GRACE ABOUNDS
On a bench
In the muted sun
On Main Street
Embracing every one of us.
Your kindness and love will always be with me each day of my life,
and I will live forever in your house, Lord. Psalm 23:6 CEV
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It’s only 2 weeks until the beginning of Lent and I hope that you are already thinking about your theme, the books you will use and practices that will guide you. I had planned to leave my Lenten practices fairly open this year. I will be away in Australia for two of its five weeks, and expect that my focus will be more on family I have not seen for 4 years than on Lent. That does not sit comfortably with me, however. The recent killing of Tyre Nichols, another wave of mass shootings in the U.S., the devastation of atmospheric rivers events that have caused flooding in Auckland, New Zealand, the ongoing war in Ukraine and now the horrific earthquakes in Turkey and Syria made me change my mind. Justice for both the people of God’s world and God’s creation itself is what aches in my heart as I prepare for Lent. So I decided that my theme this year would be breaking down walls – walls of racial injustice, of climate change denial, of the violence from guns and war and of the growing gap between rich and poor.
The challenges faced by God’s good creation and by the people who inhabit our world are always on my mind and I want to make sure I do what I can to change my behaviour as well as that of others to be more in keeping with our God of love and compassion and justice. In yesterday’s Mediation Monday: Breaking Down Walls I shared some of the steps I will take to move my heart in the right direction. I encourage you to consider these as well. You might also like to download our free resource Hungering for Life that I produced together with Jean Andrianoff several years ago which also focuses on justice. In fact we have several Lenten resources, available through our store, some as free downloads, others for purchase, that you might like to consider using for the season.
We also have a number of resource lists for both Lent, Holy Week and Easter on the blog, that you might like to revisit as they have now been updated for 2023. There are lots of links to prayers, to posts and to activities. One of my favourites is Celebrating Lent with Kids. If there are other resources that you think should been on these lists please do not hesitate to send us your suggestions.
This last week was a very rich week of posts on Godspace. Lilly Lewin’s Birthday Examen is a must read from my perspective, as is the Opening the Doors to Spring – Worship for Candlemas with litanies and music compiled by Carol Dixon and Sheila Hamil. I also loved Karen Wilk’s reflections on her friend Karen Taming-Paton’s beautiful artwork. It is wonderful to see the ways that friends are collaborating to bring us such rich and varied posts for the Godspace blog.
One of the highlights of my week was the emergence of my beautiful dark red amaryllis. It was supposed to bloom at Christmas, but it really is far more spectacular now as it is one of the few flowers on my dining room table. I hope you enjoy it as much as I do.
Let me close with a prayer for the people of Turkey and Syria:
Lord have mercy on the people of Turkey and Syria,
devastated by the horror of earthquakes.
We pray for those trapped, those waiting and those who have lost loved ones.
Let your love and your compassion surround them.
Grant them peace in the midst of their pain and fears.
Protect those that respond to the disaster.
Help them find survivors without putting their own lives at risk.
Keep them safe and give them wisdom as they dig in the rubble.
Be with leaders who make decisions
That could mean the difference between life and death.
May this catastrophe unite the people of the world
In kindness and compassion and generosity.
Lord have mercy, Christ have mercy, Lord have mercy.
May the peace of God be on us all this week.
Christine Sine
As we move into the year, I wanted to revisit our list of hospitality resources. Reaching out to our community and offering hospitality to our neighbors is a great way to feel connected, especially for those of us deep in the winter months.
Hospitality was our theme several years ago and I have just revisited this enriching series of articles. I thought you might like to revisit them too.
Here are a few of my favorite books on hospitality to get you in the mood.
Last week Khouria Destinie of Ascetic Life of Motherhood introduced me to the Triodion, the Orthodox liturgical book containing the hymns and services for the period from now until Holy Saturday. I was surprised to see that this book and the worship rhythm of Orthodox Christianity begins not with Ash Wednesday but with a three week pre-Lent period of preparation. It began yesterday with the Sunday of the Publican and Pharisee and moves through progressive Sundays highlighting the story of the Prodigal Son, Last Judgement and forgiveness.
The Orthodox calendar might be different from the one you are used to. Great Lent begins on February 27th whereas for most of us Lent begins on February 22nd with Ash Wednesday. What I love is the dedication of the Orthodox pattern of worship, which includes not only 40 days of fasting during Lent itself, but three serious weeks of preparation before that to prepare our hearts and minds for the season. This is such an important time in the celebration of our faith that I think all of us need to give it our full attention now.
My personal Lenten theme for this year, as well as the theme for Godspacelight is “Breaking Down Walls”, a theme we also used in 2019 as our justice focus for the season. When I suggested this to our writers, Elaine Breckenridge commented:
I am pleased that the theme for Lent will revolve around justice. However I do struggle with the metaphor, “Breaking Down Walls.” I know it is a metaphor. But metaphors evoke pictures. Seeing walls knocked down looks violent to me. When I think of Gandhi and Dr. Martin Luther King, I see images of passive resistance on the part of those working for justice. When I think of Desmond Tutu and his great work in South Africa, I see images of people talking with one another and reaching reconciliation. It seems to me justice is an expansive and creative work steeped in peace, not destruction.
She is right, breaking down walls can be a violent act, though it can also be an act of release, of love and of hope, as walls separate us from each other and keep us isolated from the pain of our world. I must confess however, that when I first read her comment I thought “but I would want the bridges to smash the walls” because it is my experience that bridges can only be built when walls have started to fall. I think of some of the walls I have seen fall in my lifetime. The Berlin Wall, which I visited in the 1980s and kept a piece of until recently when I gifted it to a friend, taken from the wall by a German friend, who together with others prayed for years for the breaking down of the wall. The statues of Stalin in Poland, some of which I saw torn down after the country’s release from the Soviet Union. The wall of silence about black deaths at the hands of the police in the U.S., the barrier to people crossing from Mexico to the U.S., our confrontation with the consequences of climate change are examples of wall that are still in the process of being broken down. Unfortunately none of these walls came down without violence, even though the crumbling of the walls themselves were not violent acts. In fact they were acts of freedom and liberation.
Sometimes we need to break down walls so that we can build bridges. If we build bridges when the wall still exists, we still have barriers to peaceful, freedom giving action. What we need to work towards is a society of justice and understanding and compassion in which walls are not thought to be necessary.
In 2019 Fran Pratt wrote a beautiful Litany about breaking down walls
If we can forget the idea of separation,
Perhaps we can stop building walls on its behalf.
Oh God, may we let love have free reign
To build something more imaginative than walls.
When love has free reign there are no walls, so I suggest we work to break down the walls of separation and build bridges where those walls once stood.
Breaking Down Walls Means Listening Carefully and Respectfully.
Walls are so often designed to keep out people or ideas we see as a threat, without really understanding who the people are or what the ideas mean. To listen carefully and respectfully, we must be secure enough in who we are to not be threatened by another person’s opinion. What are the fears that make us feel walls are necessary, not just on the border, but in other parts of our lives too? Listening does not mean we agree with each other, but hopefully it does mean that we can accept and love each other in the midst of our disagreements and work to build bridges rather than walls.
What if we decided to break down these walls for Lent and truly listened to each other? Here are some suggestions on how to do this.
1. Let’s preach a theology of inclusion. So often we create walls between us and those who look or practice faith differently than we do because we focus on difference rather than similarity. We are all created in the image of Christ and Paul reminds us in Galatians 3:28 that, “There is no longer Jew or Gentile, slave or free, male and female. For you are all one in Christ Jesus.” What does that look like in our world today? How could we use Lent to break down walls that exclude other ethnicities, other denominations and other sexual orientations?
Why not visit a church of a different denomination each week during Lent – an African American church, a Catholic Church an Orthodox Church, a LBGTQ affirming church or a very conservative church. If there is a church with mainly refugees in your area, it would be good to include that as well. You might even like to add a mosque and a Jewish synagogue to the mix. Invite your friends to join you. Have a discussion afterwards asking: What did you learn about God? And what did you learn about faith?
2. Encourage practices that help you get to know your neighbors. Random acts of kindness in the neighborhood are great ways to break down walls that isolate us from those around us. One of the positive impacts of the COVID lockdown was that many of us got to know our neighbours and our neighborhoods. People reached out to help those who lived alone. We walked around the neighborhood and talked to people we had never met before. Our neighbors brought us groceries every week. These are practices we still need. Maybe Lent this year is a time to reach out once more to those who live near us.
3. Be open to change. When we interact with people who are very different from us, we must be willing to learn and be receptive to the change God may demand of us. I am still impacted by the words of African American preacher Leroy Barber who once told me, “white people want us to show up but they don’t want us to change how we do things.” We need to encourage flexibility and a willingness to both see things differently and do things differently.
4. Share in the pain of the excluded. When we listen to the stories of other people’s pain, we have the choice of strengthening the walls that divide us by turning away from or ignoring the suffering that overwhelm us. Alternatively, we can take the pain we hear expressed into ourselves in the same way that Jesus took on the pain and suffering of the world. Then, we must allow God to comfort us in the midst of that pain and share that comfort and compassion with others. Teaching our congregations to listen to the pain of others and respond in compassionate and caring ways could be one of the most powerful things we could teach during Lent. Listen, pray, respond is a great mantra to teach our members to use during Lent.
5. Encourage practices that break down the wall to climate change denial. All of us live in denial to a certain extent because we are overwhelmed by the implications of the disaster of climate change and human culpability in creating it. We need to both educate ourselves and our neighbours to the consequences and help institute solutions. We just signed up to have solar panels installed on our roof and during Lent this year I plan to look at other steps we can take to make our way of living more sustainable.
Lent is meant to be a season that prepares us to live more effectively as followers of Christ. And that is all about breaking down walls that exclude and isolate us. What will you do to prepare to break down the walls within yourself and your congregation during this season?
The twelve meditations in this beautiful full-color book are designed to provide moments of refreshment throughout the day or week. The blending together of prayers, reflections, questions, and photos invites us to pause, reset and refresh ourselves. Rest is such an important part of the rhythm of our lives, not just a weekly rest of Sabbath, but pauses of rest throughout the day to reset our focus and renew our connections to God. Enjoy as a PDF download, or purchase the hard copy here.
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