by Christine Sine
Tom and I just booked a retreat time at Anacortes for just after Christmas. As many of you know we do this three or four times a year in order to refresh ourselves and plan for the upcoming months. I love to plan this end of year retreat now, because otherwise the busyness of the season soon overwhelms my best intentions for this kind of an important break.
The spiritual practice of retreat is I believe one of the most powerful tools we can implement to help us rest, increase our faith and draw us closer to God, to each other and to our responsibility for God’s world. The Bible is full of examples of those who periodically removed themselves from the world to draw closer to God. Jesus himself went into the desert for 40 days immediately after being baptized.
Most of us are daunted by the thought of 40 days on retreat but my husband and I make it into a more manageable occasion. We take a two or three day retreat three times a year. We usually go to a dog friendly B&B in Anacortes. It’s a beautiful place perched on the bluff looking out over Rosario Strait. The perfect place to relax and refocus and in the sunsets over the water are spectacular. Occasionally, we have the opportunity for more extended retreats, often combined with pilgrimages to holy sites. In 2005 we delighted in a very special retreat on the island of Iona during Holy Week.
I love these retreats. They refresh, transform and renew us. Anything is possible, from solidifying an already strong faith to experiencing a major spiritual breakthrough. Sometimes they are the birthing place for a new book project. Often the success of one personal retreat spills into the next, profoundly expanding my faith in all directions. These retreat are not highly structured or expensive. We don’t follow a set plan. They can be done anywhere you can find a quiet place to draw aside for a day or two, let go of the distractions of your busy life and focus on God.
So what should a retreat look like? To be honest, this is a hard question for me to answer. What looks good to me may not appeal to you. However there are some guidelines that you may find helpful
- Choose a quiet place that offers comfort and minimal distractions but with opportunities to enjoy yourself between spiritual sessions. Tom and I love to browse antique shops and hike. Our Anacortes get away offers both possibilities that enhance our enjoyment and relax us for the next session.
- Schedule yourself loosely. Retreats are for renewal and refreshment. If we bring the same busy schedule we are addicted to at home into our experience we will get very little out of it. Retreats are like Sabbath meant to renew our connection to God, revitalize our relationships to each other and restore our passion for God’s work.
- Spend time in prayer and scripture reading. This can take many forms. You may like to start with a familiar psalm or gospel portion, or read through an unfamiliar book of the bible. Do this in a reflective mode. Lectio Divina is a perfect tool for this.
- Keep a journal. I am very keen on journal keeping. It is part of my weekly rhythm. After breakfast each Sunday Tom and I journal about the week asking: What am I grateful for? What was your biggest struggle? What bears the fingerprints of God? I use this material as foundations for my retreats. In fact my first session is usually looking back over my weekly journal and highlighting significant events and revelations from the last few months. I keep a separate journal just for these retreats. It enables me to summarize my experiences in such a way that I can quickly look back and see the leading of God over the years.
- Break up your retreat time into sessions. Pray, journal or contemplate for no more than an hour at a time. Then share with your companion, go for a walk and relax. Plan the day so that each session flows from the work of the previous one. We usually do two or three sessions a day depending on where we are at. On the first day we focus on looking in back and discerning what God would say to us from the last few months. The second day focuses on looking forward. We don’t just plan our schedules but also talk about our spiritual disciplines, time together, hospitality with friends and travel plans.
- Between sessions, enjoy doing activities like walking or hiking, that doesn’t require concentration. Doing something that uses the right side of the brain is good – woodworking or stitchery; painting pictures or doodling; listen to orchestral music or Taize worship. I always bring my knitting and my paint pens with me. I love to collect stones from the beach that I then use to write on as I receive revelation. The worst thing I can do is get distracted by my phone. Email, texting and Facebook can totally destroy the retreat atmosphere. I try to set aside a small window of time to attend to these. Even reading or watching TV will change the train of thought God is leading you through. .
Regular retreats revolutionized my life and our marriage. They bring rest and refreshment in the midst of a hectic world. I hope you will give it a go. If so you might like to use this simple prayer as a starting place.
Let us draw aside to a place of retreat,
Soak in the love of God,
And allow it to fill every fiber of our being.
Let us soak in the wonder of Christ,
And invite him to fill us with the joy of life.
Let us soak in the power of the Spirit,
And be equipped with hope to change the world.
(c) Christine Sine November 2022
For more resources on taking a personal retreat, check out this Godspacelight resource
Here is this week’s contemplative service with music in the spirit of Taize. Carrie Grace Littauer, prayer leader, with music by Kester Limner and Andy Myers. And don’t forget that St Andrews Episcopal Church in Seattle holds a live Taize style service every 1st and 3rd Sunday at 5pm
By Tom Sine author on 2020s Foresight: Three Vital Practices for Thriving in a Decade of Accelerating Change
Prepping for Covid Next & Flu Next
Many of us are grateful that the Pandemic has slowed down a bit as we head into the cooler months. However, a number of publications tell us winter may be waiting to hammer us with yet another new strain of Covid and two more virulent versions of the flu so it is essential we get our booster shots for Covid and booster shots for the flu. We dare not let down our guard as winter rapidly approaches.
Assessing the Impact of Covid Pandemic Past
It is also essential that people of faith join psychologists who are assessing the impact that Covid has already had on people all over the planet in the last two and a half years. “At Talkspace, a platform that offers therapy online, the number of individual active users rose 60 percent from March 2020 to a year later” (Living in a Pandemic May Have Changed People’s Personalities, Christine Chung, NYT, October 24, 2022).
Psychologists and Christian leaders are urging us to wake up to the personal and psychological impacts this long pandemic journey has already had on many of us. They point out that even if we may not have contracted Covid, we have still been hammered by the stress of this long pandemic as well as the impact on loved ones and those in our communities.
Join Those Recovering From Covid Pandemic Past
We encourage all people of faith, including those who have not contracted Covid yet, to assess how you and your family and friends have been changed by living during these very stressful Pandemic Times.
As we rapidly approach winter 2022, we urge small groups in communities of faith all over the planet to join those in Godspace in prepping for winter 2022 by getting your booster shots for the new strains of Covid and your flu shots too. Then join those who are determined to recover from the impact of the first wave of the Covid Pandemic Past!
Step 1. Analyze the negative impact of living in Pandemic Times has had on your lives.
Step 2. Create new innovative ways to take your life back in 2023 and beyond, enabling you to not only reduce the stress but also create a new rhythms of life. Take time to be present with God and create new ways to reach out to our struggling neighbors locally and globally.
Step 3. Reflect on creative ways, as followers of Jesus, to grow your spiritual lives and share how we have been impacted by living in these pandemic times in your personal life and your relationships.
I am a big fan of Generation Next. Pastors know that a growing number of this generation doesn’t affiliate with churches. However few pastors know that Gen Next is the “Good News Generation” because a higher percentage of this generation is concerned about environmental, racial and economic justice than older generations. A high percentage of them also want to invest their lives in serious change making.
Researchshows that Covid has already had a concerning psychological impact on the under 30. “The pandemic itself was a ‘hell of an experiment’, said Dr. Clore, a professor of psychology at the University of Virginia, theorizing that it may have been the restructuring of routines instead of overall stress that reshapes people’s personalities” (Living in a Pandemic, 2022).
Some people coped with the new stress, exhaustion, frustration of the period by finding a new outlet. “People want to connect and process together and we were not able to do that…People felt really lost because of that”. One of the major impacts on the long Covid season that no one anticipated is that many people under 30 experienced a “disrupted maturity”. Angelina Sutton at Florida State found that that individuals under 30 ”exhibited the sharpest drops conscientiousness and agreeableness”(Living in a Pandemic, 2022). The last thing any of us want to see is Covid undermining the concerns and change making aspirations of this generation.
This provides a unique opportunity not only for churches, but for Christian colleges and important ministries like Intervarsity Christian Fellowship as well to provide counseling to Gen Next to recover from the current Pandemic so they are able to pursue their strong desire to be serious change makers in the turbulent 2020s and beyond.
Are you ready to rekindle the WONDER of the season? Join Christine Sine and Lilly Lewin in this virtual retreat as they walk you through practical and fun activities focused on Advent Wonder. Sign up for 180 days of access to work through enriching discussions and engaging exercises at your own pace. Or give it as a gift! If you have purchased courses from us before or plan on purchasing in bulk, email us for a discount code.
I am a great book lover. I was an English major in college and a language arts teacher once upon a time. I am always looking for books that inspire me. I love it when I discover other people who are book lovers too! Thanks to my work, I have a lot of friends who don’t just love books, they also WRITE THEM! (Like Christine!)
I have a new friend here in Nashville who I want to introduce you to today. BONNIE SMITH WHITEHOUSE is an English professor at Belmont University here in town. She is a kindred spirit! Bonnie’s work, Afoot and Lighthearted – A Journal For Mindful Walking was the book I recommended in the Gifts of a SACRED SUMMER kit/curriculum to help us engage God outside in nature!

AFOOT AND LIGHTHEARTED
I so love it when I find an author who combines their love of God, nature, wonder and experiential practice all in one place!
Bonnie has a new book, Seasons of Wonder – Making the Ordinary Sacred, that comes out this month just in time for advent and holiday shopping. I got mine in the mail yesterday and I am so excited to have a new devotional for ADVENT and one to use as the new year begins! This isn’t just an ordinary devotional. It’s one you can use on your own, with your small group or with your family and friends. It has activities to do together, like making your own pilgrimage walking stick! And for December, reading one of my all time favorites The Best Christmas Pageant Ever out loud. Reading this book has been a Christmas tradition in our family for years so I love that it’s one of Bonnie’s favorites too! Since we are still in November (thankfully!) the theme is POINT TO LOVE. I know that we all can use the reminder from the quote that begins the chapter:
Love is what carries you, for it is always there, even in the dark, or most in the dark. but shining out at times like gold stitches in a piece of embroidery.
– Wendell Berry
POINT TO LOVE
In these crazy times, as the days shorten and darken, we need to look for those gold stitches of love in our lives. I think Bonnie’s new book, SEASONS OF WONDER is a great way to help us do just that!

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PS, this book is a great addition to your PRACTICE OF WONDER…If you haven’t already, check out Christine Sine’s book The Gift of Wonder- Creative Practices for Delighting in God.
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Next Facebook Live!
Join Christine Sine and Lilly Lewin for a conversation about Celtic Advent and their own practices for the season on Wednesday, November 9th at 9 am PT. Happening live in the Godspace Light Community Group on Facebook – but if you can’t catch the live discussion, you can catch up later on YouTube!
As we move closer to the end of the year and the Advent season, the calendar can fill up fast! There are several exciting events coming up at Godspace as well – take a look below for dates and more information.
Facebook Live with Christine Sine and Lilly Lewin
The next Facebook Live is on November 9th, 2022 at 9 am PST (check my timezone). These sessions are free to join if you are part of the Godspace Light Facebook Community Group. Join Lilly and Christine a lively discussion of Celtic Advent and how they celebrate the season.
If you cannot join us live, look for the recording on Christine Sine’s YouTube channel.
Special Facebook Live with Graham Kerr!
We will have a special Facebook Live on Thursday November 17th at 9 am PST (check my timezone) to launch the Godspace Community Cookbook! The cookbook contains recipes and stories from those in our community, and we are thrilled to show the final product to the Godspace community for the first time. Join Graham Kerr and Christine Sine as they introduce the cookbook and share their own experiences with cooking and hospitality.
If you cannot join us live, look for the recording on Christine Sine’s YouTube channel.
Advent Quiet Day
Feeling overwhelmed by the busyness of the holiday season?
Advent is a little longer than usual this year and many of us are also looking for quiet pauses during the season. Join Christine Sine on Saturday, December 3rd for Advent Quiet Day, a morning of scripture reading and quiet reflection that will be for many of us a much needed oasis of quiet in the midst of a chaotic season. This retreat will be LIVE via Zoom from 9:30 am to 12:30 pm PT (check my timezone) but if you are booked already, you can sign up to watch the recording at your convenience after. Standard registration is $39.99, or there are economic hardship/scholarship options as well – sign up HERE!

Epiphany Day: Save the Date
Advent is so busy that this year, the joint retreat with Lilly Lewin and Christine Sine will be later in the season. Save the date for January 7th, when they will host a day-long Epiphany retreat. They will talk about some fun practices for Epiphany as well as reflect on how to prepare for the coming year.
Did you know? Godspace has many resources available for the season of Autumn and the season of Thanksgiving! From harvest helps and reflections, holiday guides, an online retreat, litanies/liturgies, prayers, and more – check it out on our Seasons & Blessings page!
All images and writing by Kate Kennington Steer
Last time I wrote:
[Story] telling [is] an integral part of Justice, making it about recognition and release, celebration and gratitude. Each telling is unique: God’s created world, and peoples, is infinitely, wondrously varied. If the stories of trees and stones are revelatory gospels where Spirit can be read; how much more so might the Spirit pour out, in loud acclamation, from the stories of precious people who currently do not know how to make their voice, their story, their gospel, be heard? … Is offering encouragement to others, urging them to tell their story, an act of justice? Is that small invitation, “tell me about it, show me how it is for you”, only applicable in the end for those with the means (financial, social, educational, emotional, physical, technical etc) to provide themselves with a way to connect to that ultimate citizen-broadcast medium: the world-wide-web? Surely not.
(If you missed the post, you can read it here).
So, now I find I am asking this question: who will carry out this deeply radical act? Who will make time to hear one person’s story today? Isn’t encouraging someone, especially someone who is without whatever means/medium they need to tell their story, to make their story heard a deeply political act? For story-telling is a dangerous act: sharing stories might be how we heal the world. One act of encouragement sparks another, which sparks another, and so on. Such a chain reaction sounds very like how the Kingdom might be built, doesn’t it?
As for my ‘work’, it is rapidly becoming apparent to me that each painting might be an opportunity. Each painting may be an ‘entertaining strangers unaware’ moment; what if an angel disguised as a painting is just waiting to bless the onlooker and to enter into a dialogue with them, releasing them to tell their story in their turn? Blessing one person might be the encouragement they need to tell their story, and hearing that story might be how we heal the world.
Is this so fanciful? Isn’t this exactly what the work of Spirit might do to build kingdom…?
Each story is a guest, just as each body is a guest. So, in that spirit of encouragement, here is a little more of my story:
Since May I have been trying to create a gratitude project around a ‘big’ birthday. I want to raise money for and also to raise the profile of a small charity with a massive impact: creativeresponsearts.org.
Creative Response, working across one small, English county offers a safe haven to those who due to mental health issues, learning difficulties, or physical impairments are in need of finding a place to be. The charity aims to provide a place where ‘vulnerable adults’ might express themselves, to provide a place to receive release and the beginning of healing for old wounds, to provide a place to receive relief, a place where people might know that in this one safe haven they are recognised, heard and seen. Creative Response welcomes each participant and each arts worker beside them, enabling them gradually to be seen in all the splendour of who they are – in fact, as who we all are: as beautiful, precious, wounded, healing souls.
Creative Response has (literally) been a life-saving organisation for me over the last twelve years. Yet I recognise that gaining access to, let alone receiving such precious support is all too often an issue of justice. It is subject to the whims of governments and the prevailing fashion in spending priorities, or postcode lotteries, inaccessible spaces, tech poverty, immigration policies, gender barriers, age limits, NGO aid camps, clean water and sanitation, lack of trained specialist personnel, mental health prejudices, racial prejudices, and gender barriers (to name just a few).
God forgive us, for the list of injustices we inflict on one another in this world is endless, and should be heart-rending. We should grieve for and with all those who feel isolated, misunderstood, abandoned, overlooked, vulnerable and unseen. Yet alongside our righteous anger, our communal lament, there is also a vital need for communal enthusing.
Enthusing one another is surely about sharing our hope; it is about flexing our rejoicing muscles daily. It is about sharing our deep gratitude for what we have been given.
How can I summon up enough energy to be enthusiastic enough, to encourage another person to tell their story? Can I be enthusiastic about listening? Can I be enthusiastic about telling my own testimony of gratitude? Can my enthusiasm be the release valve which encourages one other person to look for hope around them? Can my own determination to keep looking with paintbrush or camera in hand be the means of releasing one other person from what binds them and keeps them silent? Can my paltry offerings really be made by the Spirit into the means of showing one other person how to pause, how to see where they might find their hope, most especially when all else feels at its most desolate?
This is my passion, and my passionate prayer. I can do none of it under my own steam. With the power of the I AM behind me? All is possible. So let me encourage you to be encouragers: pausing to look for the possible. Share your own ways and means of threading a thriving belief in hope through all that is unjust and without peace in our world. With your own story of thanksgiving heart-rooted deep within, may you begin encouraging the ones around you whom no one has bothered to encourage before.
We all need the Wholeness of God…this resource includes reflections and activities for coping and thriving during the COVID-19 challenges in search of shalom as well as hope for restoration during and after this period of social distancing.
Last Wednesday during a Godspace Facebook Live event, Lisa Sands Scandrette and Mark Scandrette shared about their recent pilgrimage experiences in Europe. Lisa walked St Cuthberts Way in Northumbria and then attended the Shetland Island Wool Festival, while Mark walked the Camino de Santiago in Portugal. Both had wonderful experiences and insight into pilgrimage and their own travels. Their pilgrimage blessings follow:
Lisa’s Pilgrimage Prayer
May you connect deeply with this place as you journey.
May those who come before you inspire you to continue their best work and longings.
May you know strength and agency in your body–your legs, your hands, your mind, your heart.
May spaciousness fill your heart, soul and mind.
May God be in every step, every creature, every piece of wool that runs through your fingers.
May you hear God’s invitational whisper each day in wind, waves, the jubilations of birds.
May you recognize the face of God in your fellow travelers–hosts, passers by, new friends.
May your hands be open to give and receive the abundance this day offers.
May you create quiet to sit, to settle, to notice, to reflect, to contemplate.
May you see, hear, taste, touch, smell–experience the hospitality of God at each turn.
May you find companionship with yourself, emerging stronger, more beautiful, more truly you.
May you have courage to explore your curiosity and engage in the new and unknown.
May you clothe yourself in beauty.
May you revel in the connection of co-creation, mindful of the thread that leads you back to the source of all things.
Mark’s Pilgrim Prayer
Watch the sunrise
Walk in the light of the Divine
Want love, joy, peace, mercy and justice.
Seek wisdom
Tell the truth
Create beauty
Love courageously
Watch the sun set
Die to the small separated self
Eat and drink,
laugh and cry
Listen and tell stories with a grateful, undivided heart
Sleep in peace
Dream of a new world
Awaken to eternal life
The full recording of their conversation with Christine on Wednesday can be found below or on here on Christine’s YouTube channel.
Feeling overwhelmed this holiday season? Make space for a moment of peace on December 3rd for Advent Quiet Day. Join Christine Sine for a morning of scripture reading and quiet reflection to pause and reflect during the busy Advent season. This retreat will be LIVE via zoom from 9:30 am PT to 12:30 pm PT. Click here for more details or to sign up!
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