By Mary Harwell Sayler —
Praise God your Lover
Who embraces you
like a blanket wrapped
around the chill of your life
and holds you –
insulated from evil,
protected from attack,
cloistered in comfort,
cocooned in Christ –
until, reassured,
you risk new life
and rise in the lift of God’s love.
Mary Harwell Sayler, © 2017, from the book PRAISE!
By Shannon Martin —
Do you ever wonder if you are, perhaps, the resident nut job at your church?
Our church families are just as complicated as our biological families. We all have that one crazy member that everyone can identify as THAT crazy person. The one that we cringe at when we see them coming (yes, church members are still humans!). We find them harmless enough, but they just don’t know when to stop talking or just have no filter……
I am wondering if that is me.
Over the last several years I have been involved in a variety of projects and served in a number of different ways in different capacities. Last year I realized after soul-searching that beyond being a people pleaser I was also very prone to believe that my identity was found in the things I did.
After a lot of reluctance and stubbornness on my part, I finally surrendered to God’s will and began to step back from some things and give other things up completely. This has put me into a very odd position for me.
I am not currently the person serving in different areas, but I have a ton of knowledge about how things have been done, changes that have been made over the years and why they were made, and other historical type information like that. A repository of mostly useless information at this point.
As a result, I get asked a lot of questions……at least at first……and in a way, my busy-a-holic soul loved this because it kept me in touch with those positions I had given up. I was still in the know……I was still important…….
And then the questions stopped coming……and I had to remind myself that this is a VERY GOOD THING!!! I have successfully transitioned out of multiple roles with just a small remaining role in the worship planning/leading arena.
However, I still seem to stumble upon conversations coming and going at church and I JUST CAN’T STOP MYSELF at times from throwing in my two cents worth.
This is why I am now wondering have I become the resident church nut job? The one who just can’t seem to keep her nose out of things that are no longer her concern?
So just as I have had to become more intentional about prayer times and scripture study times, I must now also become intentional about not picking back up the things that are not my current assignments from God.
I have often complained that I don’t like people stepping on my callings, or feel like I am at times being held back by folks from doing the currently assigned tasks from God. However, if I refuse to let things go, then I am the person stepping in the way and holding others back from their full potential in God’s callings for them.
Letting go doesn’t mean losing a part of me, it instead is actually FREEDOM for me. Freedom to continue to grow and the ability to allow others to grow as well. Freedom to spread my wings and be open to trying new things.
My identity is found in belonging to the one true living and eternal God. The God of Abraham, Isaac, Jacob and Joseph. The same God that Deborah, Ruth, and Esther belonged to. This needs to be my focus. This is what I need to be intentional about. I am being prepared for “just such a time as this” (Esther 4:14 – NRSV).
What I do at church does not define who I am in Christ.
My new guiding verse can be found in Isaiah 58:11 (AMP):
“And the Lord will continually guide you, and satisfy your soul in scorched and dry places, and give strength to your bones: and you will be like a watered garden, and like a spring of water whose waters do not fail.”
Going forward I will speak less and listen more. I will reserve my opinions and keep them to myself unless asked specifically for them. Yes, yes, I know, but please try to contain your laughter at those last two statements…… I will, with God’s strength and guidance, be able to accomplish even this!
So, while I may be a recovering busy-a-holic, and a recovering nut job (okay, may not be any way for me to escape this one!), at the beginning, the middle, and the end of every single day I am a child of the one true King. And that makes me ENOUGH.
I know what it is to have little, and I know what it is to have plenty. In any and all circumstances I have learned the secret of being well-fed and of going hungry, of having plenty and of being in need. I can do all things through him who strengthens me. (Philippians 4:12-13 – NRSV)
Shannon Martin and her husband live in North East Ohio with with their teenage son. They attend Midway Mennonite Church. You can also find some of her writings I on her blog Wisdom Wanderings.
Shiphrah and Puah are two of the most minor characters in the Bible, and their story consists of only a few verses. I enjoy their story, though—not only because their actions profoundly influenced the scriptural story of liberation but also because of how they managed to succeed. Exodus tells us that Pharaoh had become uneasy at the population of Hebrews in Egypt, so he instructed the midwives, Shiphrah and Puah included, to kill any Hebrew boys at birth. Rather than refusing outright, a refusal that would probably have just lea to their own deaths, these two midwives took advantage of Pharaoh’s ignorance and told him a tale that no woman would have believed. “The Hebrew women are not like the Egyptian women,” they said, “for they are vigorous and give birth before the midwife comes to them.”
This story reminds me of another short story, “A Jury of Her Peers” by Susan Glaspell. In this story, the men overlook evidence that the women are able to interpret. The men, those who possess much more public power than the women do, simply don’t recognize that sloppy embroidery or a dead parakeet is significant. They also don’t realize that they ought to ask the women what they’ve noticed. The men and the women see the same things, but only the women are able to ascribe meaning to what they see. The women save their friend from a possible conviction for murder simply by keeping quiet.
People who possess little authority can seldom overcome their opponents through sheer force. They have to rely on other means—by understanding their oppressors better than they understand themselves, by outwitting those too arrogant to question their own limitations. Exodus doesn’t tell us what the midwives think of Pharaoh, whether they consider him simply naïve or an outright fool, whether they’re just taking advantage of his understandable limitations. He doesn’t question their presentation of the Hebrew women’s character. Why would he? He doesn’t know anything about childbirth. Why would he know? Why would he care to know?
This story offers a lesson in justice, but it also offers a lesson in humility. However much any of us knows, we probably don’t know enough. We’ve probably each stared right at something and overlooked its meaning. And the story suggests that God approves of wiliness, of tricking our opponents when that’s the option we have. Someday, perhaps, we might all live in the peaceable kingdom, none of us grasping after power or so enraged with greed that we accept the harm we cause to get what we want. My faith teaches me that such a thing could happen, though my experience tells me that it won’t likely happen soon. Until then, let’s use these two often overlooked women as our models; when we can’t eradicate evil, let’s try to outwit it.
Yesterday, I spoke at Austin Mustard Seed Church on rest and Sabbath. It was a great opportunity to refresh my own understanding of what it means to find our rest in God.
With the aid of Biblegateway.com I looked up a number of psalms that talk about resting in God, and compared how different versions translate the passages. Rest from a biblical perspective is definitely not about taking a nap when we are exhausted.
In Psalm 62:1,2 one of my favourites verses on rest, The Message talks about breathing room for my soul. What a beautiful way to describe the rest we find when we wait quietly and allow the presence of God to fill us.
Breathing room for the soul, that wonderful place of intimacy where we delight in God and God delights in us.
Rest like this does not just happen however. These breathing room moments are created when we intentionally sit quietly imagining God in us and around us, filling us to overflowing with the wonder of a warm embrace. They are brief personal moments when we deliberately pause for time out from our busy schedules and allow a sense of stillness to dissipate the concerns of the day.
How Do We Cultivate These Restful Moments.
1. Take notice of the spaces that encourage rest – possibly a place in nature life beside a waterfall or in a garden corner; or a special at home place like a comfortable armchair, or a cosy meal with friends; or even at work place where we invite God into our office, a local coffee shop or a park bench. Taking notice of these places and visiting them regularly throughout the day is a wonderful way to experience breathing room for the soul.
Question: What are the spaces you visit regularly that encourage you to enter the rest of God?
2. Notice the sensory experiences that allow our souls to breathe. For some it is sights like photos, written prayers or scriptures, religious icons or paintings. For others it is sounds like water cascading over rocks, bells ringing, birds singing. Still others find rest when the aromas of baking bread or the fragrance of flowers come to them. Or perhaps it is the feel of the texture of wood, or velvet or a loved one’s face that draws you into God’s rest. It can even be the taste of a good meal, a cup of coffee or a piece of chocolate.
Question: What types of sensory stimuli allow your soul to breathe and enter the rest of God?
3. Recognize actions that encourage you to stop, rest and delight in God. Moses took off his shoes when he recognized that he had entered a holy place, and without his sandals on it was obvious that he was there to stay a while. For some of us it is kneeling, or raising our hands in the air that carries us into that place of rest. For others it is reciting a breathing prayer or walking the labyrinth. Sometimes it is in community with others – preparing a meal together, singing together, gardening together are all actions I have found can draw me into that restful presence of God. Even washing the dishes or vacuuming the floor are special, sacramental actions that invite some of us into the place where we delight in God.
Question: What are the actions you can identify that encourage you to stop, rest and delight in God?
What Is Your Response?
Sit quietly, hands in your lap, palms upwards ready to receive from God.
Close your eyes and take a couple of deep breaths in and out, visualize them flowing into your heart and your soul. Relax into the presence of God and imagine God in you and around you. Enjoy the wonder of God’s warm embrace.
Bring to mind one thing that delights you about God.
Sit for a moment and savour that delight.
Now imagine one thing about you that God delights in.
Sit still and allow the delight of God to fill you.
Open your eyes and take out your journal. Write down what you experienced. You might like to respond with a prayer, a doodle, a sketch or even a song.
by Lilly Lewin —
The Celtic Christians prayed along the way…they prayed as they got up in the morning and rekindled the fire, they prayed as they went out the door to work, they prayed for family members as they cleaned up their homes, they prayed for their work as they walked down the lanes to the fields.
I find this comforting as there are so many mundane tasks that have to be done day in, and day out. The prayers of the Celtic Christians have inspired to me to pray along the way too. To pray using everyday things, and allow every day tasks and chores to be prayer times.
So for Freerange Friday we are going to pray with our laundry!
Missing socks…
Missing dreams…
Maybe your dreams have been lost like a sock in a dryer…
Maybe you cannot find it’s mate
Or maybe your dreams have become shrunk or wrinkled?
Maybe they have been sitting too long wet and still in the bin
and now they stink…
Like old cheese.
What are your dreams with God?
What are God’s dreams for you?
Have you asked God lately?
Take some time,
Pray about this.
Dream Big.
As you sort, fold or wash your socks, let your dreams grow.
Talk to God about your dreams, your dreams that may have holes in them, or gotten lost or separated along the way.
Dreams that are worn thin and need new life.
Dream Big with God about your life!
Ask God to show you the dreams God has for you as you wash &fold socks.
Clothes prayers:
How’s your spiritual life at the moment?
Is it in dirty piles on the floor? Or heaped in a corner ?
Is it neatly folded and put away so no one can see it?
Is like your favorite T-shirt and pair of jeans?
Or is it more like a prom dress put away for a one time gig?
Is it well-worn?
Or does it still have on the tags?
Is it a hand me down faith or have you received it on your own?
Does it need mending?
Does it need to be re-sized because you’ve out grown it or lost some weight?
What garment, what piece of clothing represents your spiritual life right now?
Take it out of the pile, or the drawer or the closet and hang it up where you can see it each day…allow God to speak to you through this garment or item.
Is there a garment or item of clothing that you’d like to represent your new life in God? Place that out too or cut out a picture of this item and hang it up where you can see it daily. Allow the Holy Spirit to speak to you through the piles in your room, the laundry basket and even your wardrobe or closet.
Praying for others:
If you do laundry for other people….like your family or roommates,
Pray for them as you wash their clothes or as you fold them. And if you have kids help you wash and fold, get them to pray with you!
Ask Jesus to warm their hearts, to clean any spots or soiled areas that are troubling them. To help them feel clean and whole. To be refreshed with the Spirit. What else comes to mind?
If you do laundry at a laundromat, pray for the people you see around you….
Consider their lives…
What are their needs?
Ask Jesus to touch their lives in ways that make him real to them.
Take along some extra Quarters to give to someone who might need help with their laundry, or help someone carry out a load or two.
Ask Jesus to help you see with new eyes the needs around you.
If you use a dry cleaner, get to know them.
Too often service providers don’t get treated with honor or respect.
Begin to pray for them and their business.
Jesus, thank you that you are with us in the day to day pieces of living.
Thank you for the power to sort through the piles that clutter our lives.
Thank you for seeing the spots and loving us even with our stains.
Thank you that you already know our dirty laundry, the stuff we try so hard to hide away, and you long to set us free.
Thank you for your promise to wash us and make us whiter than snow.
Help us to know this. Help us to receive this!
Help us to receive your love and your cleansing forgiveness.
And Help us Lord to share your cleansing love and forgiveness with those around us.
AMEN
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….A CALL TO RAD WHOLE LIFE FAITH FOR TIMES LIKE THESE
By Tom Sine
As we race into a future changing at WARP SPEED we need to invite the Spirit of God to ignite our imaginations to create whole new forms of LIFEMAKING, CHANGEMAKING and CHURCHMAKING to engage new challenges and opportunities of changing times.
We have, in earlier posts, celebrated the compassion and creativity of the millennial generation numbers of whom are creating new forms of changemaking enabling some churches to move from token handouts to creating social enterprises to empower their neighbors don’t need handouts.
As I stated in my last post this generation also recognizes climate change is real and poses a real threat to both God’s good creation and to our children and grandchildren. Many of them are in the front of the movement to restore God’s good creation. They are also challenging those of us in all generations to: Live Like We Give A Damn! Will you join them?
Since we live in a world changing at WARP SPEED we can no longer continue with business as usual in both our churches and our personal lives. Let’s take a hard look at one way we need to join those who are re-imagining how to be followers of the servant Jesus in a world of accelerating change.
In a recent post I explained that many mainline churches are facing a “DEATH TSUNAMI” because while their denominations are declining at a constant 2% to 5% a year that is not the complete story.
Not only mainline churches but a growing number of evangelical churches are facing a rapid die-off in aging congregations. Since the majority of members in many of these graying in congregations are comprised of us 50 to 90 year olds these churches are likely to experience an accelerated rate of decline.
Now we are also facing a PARTICIPATION TSUNAMI. Many readers over 40 can remember when regular church attendance was Sunday morning, Sunday night and Wednesday night. Today, “regular” church attendance is once or twice a month. Time to volunteer to help those in need is down, time for prayer is down. Per capita church giving which was 3.8% in 1968. to a new low In 2015 of 2.4%. While some congregations are still flourishing individual participation rates even of these churches are still declining.
The urgent question for all church leaders is “how long can participation levels and giving levels continue to decline before numbers of our churches begin to hemorrhage and lose their essential vitality?”
Of course one of the reasons for people’s declining levels of participation is because many of us are experiencing growing pressure of our rapidly changing world on our lives and families. I suspect another factor could also be a failure of discipleship education in a number of our churches to enable us and our fellow members to live our best lives.
I find that mainline churches offer courses, like many Catholic Churches, in spiritual formation. Evangelical churches usually seem to offer courses in personal discipleship. Is it possible while these courses certainly have value that too often we seem to be content if they simply help people limp through our week? Is it possible that too often we settle for less…not go for our best?
Is it possible that Christian educators could learn from life coaches, that corporate leaders hire, how to enable follower of Jesus to seriously up our game? Is it possible that we could learn how to create more compassionate, focused, disciplined and festive lives…in the way of Jesus?
Corporate leaders often have enormous responsibility and could never carry out their roles simply limping through their week. Wouldn’t creating discipleship courses that enables us to create more purpose focused disciplined whole life followers of Jesus Christ lives be a good idea?
I got some time with my friend Dan White Jr. At the recent Inhabit Conference here is Seattle. He shared how those in the V3 network are already addressing this urgent need through what are called “Curated Conversations.” Dan explained that in these conversations they help members of their churches to define a clear sense of purpose for their lives and create a rhythm where they have time to be present to God and care for neighbors as well a time for family and their work.
Dan stated these curated conversations also help members learn how to delight in God, create community, get to know their neighbors, develop personal disciplines and create a flourishing life.
Living in a world changing at WARP SPEED, where we are witnessing declining levels of participation in many our churches, wouldn’t it be good to create our own curated conversations? Wouldn’t it be good idea to raise the bar in our discipleship courses and enable one another seek to become whole life, disciplined followers of Jesus? Wouldn’t it be a good idea to discover the new ways God can use our mustard seeds to be a difference and make a difference…in times like these?
By Talitha Fraser —
When life becomes stressful and you find yourself burdened by matters personal or political, or holding things that are going on for friends or family you might find yourself seeking out space and grace to help you get through it. I found myself reflecting recently that those spaces I seek out aren’t incidental or metaphorical but instead can be a literal expression of what I feel or need – for instance, if I want today to be a new day and start over differently I might wake at dawn to watch that new start spark. If I feel small and struggling against bigger problems than I can overcome then lighting a candle can remind me just how much light that can still cast and how warm and encouraging that light can still be. If you have been hanging out for a day to end it might feel really good to watch it finally come to a close.
The water’s edge can be a powerful place. Jesus often spoke on the water and at the water’s edge. The vastness of a beach horizon can provide a sense of scale to reflection. The tides speak to larger rhythms we all participate in as created but may not be aware of or understand. Out and in, out and in… you can breathe with it and know what is full will be emptied, and what is rushed will slow. Rivers are rich landscapes – you know that what is passing now has passed by others before you and will pass by others after you. There is something special in the biodiversity of this – at once you are not alone and also you can ask: what does the river bring here with it? What will it carry away? If there are too many things in your mind competing for attention find one small remarkable thing to focus on and marvel at it. Become present to your surroundings and observe what is there to be seen – if you’re not too sure about this you might set out for a walk with a list of things to look for: feather, seed, bud, leaf, mushroom, flower, shell… leave it where and as you found it – it is where its meant to be. In its company you might have an understanding of this yourself, made as you were meant to be.
Seek out some high hill or mountain top for the view, from this perspective matters that might seem overwhelming might become smaller and less significant in the bigger scheme of things. Getting distance, physically, mentally, spiritually can be helpful – the city becomes its skyline, street lights can become like a twinkling field of stars. From this angle things might be softer and more beautiful, we can accept and appreciate them for their form and function day to day because we know when we step back they play a part in what our life is. Sitting around a fire can be a good place for talanoa or deep listening, so much can happen around a campfire… we might share ideas, stories, resolve problems, develop or maintain relationships… when Jesus healed the bleeding woman she “told him the whole truth”. When and with whom are you doing deep sharing and deep listening? Walks in the bush can require following a path and we do not know where it leads, we don’t always know if it will go up or down, or how long it will take, will it open out to a place where we can see and get our bearings or do we just follow it from its beginning to its natural end trusting it to lead us to where we want to be never knowing more than a few metres ahead what the path looks like.
I could continue…
If you need to feel grounded take off your shoes and walk on the grass. Feel the connection between your feet and the earth.
Make and use compost and you will come to understand that nothing is a waste. A seed has to die to become a plant. Our endings are the soil of our next beginning and everything can be turned to good purpose. Today’s crap is the fertiliser of the seeds we plant tomorrow.
Join a family dinner table if you need a timeout from your own headspace. Children require of you to be present and bear witness to their wonder, play, awareness of their needs – physical, social, emotional – let’s face it, you probably won’t be able to hear the voices in your head over the noise they make, that might be a rest you need.
Look at the stars. They have been used for navigation and to find our way home since time immemorial. People in different times and in different countries have told stories using the same stars – like the Pleiades also known as Krittika and Matariki. Pull a string and the rest of the world is attached. You are not alone. You are one among many and among all those who have ever been.
Hosea 2:14 reads “Therefore, behold I will allure her, and will lead her into the wilderness: and I will speak to her heart” Be allured. Think about what you need and what grace each space speaks to your heart, that way you can be intentional about seeking out the space you need and be restored. Once you are there, present to place, pray. What insight do you gain about your circumstances from being in this place? How can you change them? Sometimes we can feel like circumstances and situations are out of our control and there’s nothing we can do but being present to them in space allows for responding creatively – how might it feel to light an extra candle? to take a flower home and put it in a vase where you can look at it daily? to invite your friends round to gather at the fire? In some small way this is making a difference, this is exercising choice This awareness can spill over as you practice it, then these will not be spaces you seek out at need but ones that you come to awareness of and welcome as they arrive in your day – at different times, by different light, in different seasons – space and grace.
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