Back To School – 10 Tips to Help You Prepare Spiritually

by Christine Sine
Are We Ready for School

Are We Ready for School

It is back to school time here in the U.S. and everyone has advice to give on how to dress, how to go green, how to find the best bargains, how to relieve anxiety and even how to arrange a play date with new friends. What I have not seen is much advice on how to prepare kids spiritually in order to help reduce their anxieties and improve their ability to fit in to their new situation. many I suspect slip away from their faith jsut because they do not know how to maintain their equilibrium.

Going back to school can be a traumatic time even for mature university and seminar students yet most of us are too busy getting kids out of the house or rushing off to our own classes to give much thought to our spiritual needs. Kids and adults alike need a sense of stability and familiarity to reduce their stress levels and help them adjust.

Here are some simple suggestions kulled from friends on what to do.

This first list are suggestions for school kids and their parents.

1. Begin the school day with a simple breath or circling prayer. I love this simple Celtic prayer which I wrote a couple of years ago and which several friends use with their children before they go to school

The sacred three encircle us,

Keep love within and fear without,

Keep peace within and violence out,

Circle us with your presence.

Keep truth within and injustice out,

Keep acceptance in and prejudice out,

Circle us with your grace.

Keep wholeness in and disease without,

Keep care within and selfishness out,

Circle us with your love.

2. Include a short prayer in your child’s lunch box Such as: Thank you God for this child (use name). May your light shine upon him/her. May your love fill him/her. May your spirit grant him/her peace. Or you may just like to say something like: Thinking of you and praying for you as you eat your lunch.

3. When you first see your child after school check how their day has gone. You may like to ask the questions: Where did you feel close to God today?  What made you feel God was a long way away? One of my friends told me that this revolutionized her child’s approach to school and their sense of God’s presence in the day.

4. Spend a few minutes before your child goes to bed discussing what he or she is grateful for at school. Focusing on positive emotions like these help children feel more secure and encourage compassion and love towards other children.

5. Say a short prayer together for friends, teachers and situations your child has faced during the day.

Those who are students themselves may like to develop a similar routine. Trying to spend half an hour each morning reading the bible and praying is usually impossible but finding a simple rhythm of prayer and ritual that draws us close to God not only reduces our stress levels but increases our ability to focus, helps us respond compassionately to our friends and teachers and enables us to keep close to God 24/7.

1. Begin the day with a breath prayer and/or short relaxation exercise that makes you feel relaxed and close to God as you enter the day.

2. Use a book of prayers arranged to be said at different times during the day (called offices). My favourite is David Adam’s The Rhythm of LifeThese may only take a minute or two of our time but can reorient us to presence of God.

3. Pause at the end of each class to offer a short prayer of gratitude for what you have learnt in the session.

4. Before you go to bed ask yourself the questions: Where did you feel close to God today?  What made you feel God was a long way away? This is a very abbreviated form of the Prayer of Examen which I highly recommend if you want to spend more time.

5.  Before you go to sleep name 5 things from your lectures and study times that you are grateful for.

Whatever you decide to do – keep it simple, make meaningful and stick to it.

I would love to hear from students and parents as to what you have found helps the most.

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Pieter Stok August 27, 2012 - 5:03 pm

Great list. I’ll keep this aside for January.

Christine Sine August 27, 2012 - 5:29 pm

Yes I often think of the different times at which we start school here in the Northern hemisphere compared to what I grew up with. May try and post a reminder in January

Shelly August 27, 2012 - 5:14 pm

very good suggestions for me as I go back to graduate school on Wednesday!! thanks.

Christine Sine August 27, 2012 - 5:29 pm

Thanks Shelly

Jennifer Paterson August 27, 2012 - 10:02 pm

I loved this Christine! So practical! I actually preached a sermon on Sunday at our church comparing the return to school, the anxieties of the unknowns, etc… to the journey of faith. It was pretty fun. 🙂

I love how practical you are! Thanks again for the fabulous retreat on Camano. It ministered to me so deeply. It was all I could have hoped for and more…

Christine Sine August 28, 2012 - 6:59 am

Thanks Jennifer for your comments. It was so good to see you at the retreat again and I look forward to staying in touch.

Lee Forsberg September 3, 2012 - 1:04 pm

Your prep for children is great and I think that some of us older folks need to use the theme for ourselves as we go about our daily life.

Christine Sine September 3, 2012 - 2:27 pm

Lee I agree. Must confess I had some of us older kids in mind as I wrote this.

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