Tom and I are heading out this morning for our quarterly retreat time and I know that the question at the forefront of my mind is” Is it time to slow down? As you can see from the prayer above which I first posted on the Facebook page Light for the Journey yesterday, I am already thinking about what slowing down looks like.
Life has been frantically busy over the last month and I know that when that happens my life gets out of synch. When that happens I start to see myself as a consumer rather than as a child of God. I start to feel that work is more important than relationships and that pleasing myself is more important than pleasing God. None of that is what God intends. I always remember Richard Foster saying Busyness is not of the devil, it is the devil. I think he is right. The busier we are the less connected we are to our inner selves, to others and to God.
Ironically I find that I need to slow down in order to recognize my need to slow down. Unless I deliberately build routines into my schedule that encourage me to focus away from work onto relationships and away from the computer onto God’s world I get into a vicious cycle that moves me from one busy activity to another.
There are several signs I look for that make me aware that I am getting too busy. Some of them seem very trivial but are great early warning signs that I must confess I don’t always take notice of.
- I don’t want to take time for my morning routines. I use a sonic toothbrush which is set for 2 minutes of brushing and there are times when I get very impatient with the cycle. Then I start to skip my morning exercises. Then I cut back on my time with God. And surprise, surprise, then I start making excuses for why work is more important than anything else. These, I am learning are good indications that I am either getting too busy or too stressed to look at life’s essential routines realistically.
- I don’t want to stop for meals. Fast food and meals on the go are for me a good indication that my life is out of synch. I quickly forget that food is a gift from God meant to be enjoyed and savoured. It is not just another commodity meant to be consumed.
- I cut out my daily walks. Walking is a great way for all of us to reduce stress. This is not treadmill walking or a workout at the gym that I am talking about here. It is walking the neighbourhood or for me, around Greenlake with its three mile trail that is important. This kind of walking encourages us to pause and take notice of God, to recognize my own insignificance and to relax in the fact that I do not bear the burden of seeing God’s world changed on my own.
- I refuse to say no to new projects even though my time is already fully committed. It is nice to be needed and I know I am not alone in accepting more on my plate than I should. Unfortunately the busier I get the less time I take to reflect when I am asked to add something else to my schedule. Learning to say “let me pray about it” or “let me talk to my husband” are two responses that always help me be realistic. The busier we get the more we need to seek the counsel of others before committing ourselves.
So my question for all of us today is: What are the signs that your life is getting too busy and how do you respond?
Brigid and the Hospitality of God is the theme for our annual Celtic retreat this August. Come join us on Camano Island WA for this wonderful weekend. More details here
- share a time of guided retreat and reflection beginning at 9am Saturday morning with coffee and snacks. enjoy the prayer trails and prayerful activities during the afternoon celebrate with a BBQ potluck dinner that night.
- Both kids and students will have a program designed especially for their time at the Retreat.
- We also invite you to camp with us Friday and Saturday nights, and to share morning and evening prayers and a time of reflective worship Sunday morning.
- Find out about the different options here
Jesus, who welcomes all who come to him, shows us the pattern that is repeated in Eastern hospitality and in the Celtic way of life. The idea that the one I welcome is the “Christ in the stranger’s guise” calls me to recognize the image of God in all persons and the presence of God in all creation. This understanding changes my attitude toward every person. I open my heart and seek the good, rather than raise my walls of defense and look with suspicion. Celtic spirituality teaches not only hospitality to the stranger but welcome to the poor and the marginalized.
At the retreat we will use the life of Brigid, one of my favourite Celtic saints, to guide us. She became abbess at the monastery of Kildaire where, under her leadership, a thousand meals were reportedly served each day. I always use Brigid’s Feast as a grace for our retreats. This year our liturgies, songs and scripture readings will also revolve around her love for the poor and her generous hospitality.
Each year our Saturday meals are potlucks with delicious salads and desserts contributed by attendees. This year we would like to start collecting some of these wonderful recipes to help us get to know each other better. So if you plan to come, write out your recipe with your name and contact information send it to us so that we can make these available for other attendees. This year’s retreat will be a grand summer celebration of welcome and feasting.
Most exciting of all we will dedicate our first building on the property. Last week Tom and I visited the site where the green roof is now being installed. It should be completed by the time of the retreat, and we hope that you can join us for this exciting celebration.
This post is out of date, please check out our latest resource list here.
Jesus asscensions scene. Golded mosaic from Neamt Monastery, Romania
Earlier today I posted this reflection in preparation for Ascension day May 29th. As you know my focus was more on the new creation that Jesus ascension ushered into being than it was on the ascent of Christ to the right hand of God, partly because so much of the language of ascent seems to focus more on the triumphalism of a militaristic parade rather than the ascent of a servant king whose advocacy will restore and renew all things.
Giotto-Ascension
Having said that I do not want to deny the exultant triumph of our risen Lord and the freedom his ascent has brought us. For the disciples this must have been an amazing day. They knew Jesus was alive. They knew he was the Son of God and the Saviour of the world, the long-promised Messiah. They knew that they would see him again when he returned, as he had assured them that he would, at the end of time and the day of resurrection. They knew that he still loved them, simply because he appeared to them after he rose from the grave and, most importantly, he had entrusted his mission on earth to them. They had begun to comprehend the nature of God’s love and power; so should we.
Ribe Cathedral. Pulpit ( 1597 ): Ascension of Christ with the latin inscription “Omnes traham ad me ipsum” ( All people I will draw to myself ) via wikimedia
So I wanted to share some of my favourite resources here to help us get ready for this day.
The United Methodist Church has some great resources. I love the exultant note of this prayer from Rev. Marilyn E. Thornton the Lead Editor for African American,
One: Let us gather as they gathered on the Mount of Olivet.
Let us remember the teachings of the law, psalms, and prophets.
Many: Ride on King Jesus, no one can hinder you!
Here is another from the reformed tradition With A Shout
And this by David Diephouse who teaches history at Calvin College
Our God goes up with shouts of joy!
Our Lord ascends to the sound of trumpets!
All: Sing praises to our God, sing praises!
Sing praises, sing praises to our King!
The Almighty rides in triumph.
The Almighty leads captivity captive.
Who shouts for joy? Who blows the trumpet?
The hosts of heaven sing the honor of his name;
they praise him with an endless alleluia.
And this prayer from the Catholic service for Ascension Day
God our Father,
make us joyful in the ascension of your Son Jesus Christ.
May we follow him into the new creation,
for his ascension is our glory and our hope.
We ask this through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son,
who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit,
one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
As usual John van de Laar at sacredise.com has some great resources – prayers, liturgies, even suggestions for hymns and youtube videos. You can check them out here.
Here is a good set of videos/loops from re:Worship
And as always textweek.com has a very comprehensive list of resources for celebrating Ascension Day
Obviously there are lots of other great resources out there too so if you have found something that is particularly helpful please leave a link in the comments below.
Ascension – Jesusmafa
May 29th we celebrate Ascension day. What on earth is this you may ask? This is not a celebration that I grew up with, nor is it one that I have taken much notice of. It is not a celebration that most of us outside liturgical churches have ever heard of or ever really celebrated, but it is very important and I would highly recommend that you consider incorporating it into your worship cycle. I tend to think of this as a Catholic celebration and so was amazed therefore at the beautiful and enriching prayers I came across from many different traditions and thought that I would share some of them with you.
The fortieth day after Easter Sunday is a day of great significance as we celebration the ascension of Christ into heaven. It is also and, in some ways more importantly, a celebration of the new creation that Jesus’ resurrection brought into being. What beautiful imagery to carry with us for the rest of the season until Pentecost (June 8th). It seems such an appropriate celebration for those of us who are interested in sustainability and creation care.
I used this as the focus of my reflection last year Ascension Day is Coming: Celebrate the New Creation and found myself revisiting this imagery as I thought about Ascension Day this morning. Ascension day is a day of hope and promise. The ascended Lord will return to judge that which is broken and unjust. He will return as leader in a glorious future. in which he will abolish injustice, end suffering, destroy death and set up God’s new world of truth, righteousness and love.
Because Jesus ascended and sits at the right hand of God,
a new world has broken into ours –
a world in which justice does come for the poor,
freedom comes for the prisoners,
and healing for the sick.
Because Jesus ascended and sits at the right hand of God,
a new community has been formed –
a community that loves and cares for all members,
a family that welcomes all who are abandoned and rejected,
a place where all find a place of belonging.
Because Jesus ascended and sits at the right hand of God,
a new creation has begun –
all that was distorted is being restored,
all that is corrupted is being renewed,
all that was broken is being made whole.
Because Jesus ascended and sits at the right hand of God,
God’s new world has begun.
Yesterday was mother’s day, for most of us a time to celebrate our earthly mothers and in some cases grieve their loss. However yesterday in her sermon Morgan Schmidt reminded us that there are many images of God as mother in the Bible. God is both the perfect mother and the perfect father.
Yesterday afternoon I sat and contemplated some of the beautiful imagery of God as mother. Our world tends to be dominated by images of God as father, the images of the nurturing, caring God who holds us, grieves with us and laughs with us are less common.
It occurred to me that many of Jesus parables are really images of what a mother does for us:
As a mother nurtures and feeds us, God feeds us in the feeding of the 5,000.
As a mother binds up the skinned knee of her child, God binds up our wounds in the story of the Good Samaritan.
good samaritan – african from Jesusmafa.com
As a mother comforts and surrounds her children with love so God surrounds us
As a mother bears a child’s pain whenever possible and suffers with us when we hurt so Jesus bore our pain on the cross
Art by He Qi
There are other images that come to mind too.
As a mother believes in and brings to fulfillment the hopes and dreams of her children so God believes in our hopes and dreams.
Like a mother, God is the one who loves when it makes no sense.
We always recognize our mother’s voice and so too God is the one who calls us with a voice we always know.
A good mother is one who like God, desires our healing and brings us to wholeness.
Mothering will fill you with love, it will break your heart. It is the best thing in the world.
May we all remember God as our mother today.
Mum and Dad with myself and brothers Nick and Rod 60 years ago.
Loving and nurturing God, we thank you for mothers.
for all they mean or have meant,
for the love they have shown and the care they have given.
For the many times they held us close.
Loving and nurturing God we thank you for the qualities of mothers.
their patience, their kindness, concern and understanding.
We thank you for the part they play in our lives,
and for this day of saying ‘thank you’
Loving and nurturing God we thank you for the wonder of your mothering.
As a mother protects her children, you watch over us day by day,
your arms constantly encircle and protect us,
your hands shield and deliver us from harm.
Loving God, we pray for those for whom Mother’s day is a time of heartache rather than a celebration.
We pray for those who have never known their mother or whose mothers have died.
We wait with those who long to be mothers but as yet have not had their own children.
We grieve with those who ache because they will never be mothers.
Lord in your mercy, mother them with your love.
We pray for those who struggle with the way their children have chosen to live their lives.
We pray for those who have a difficult relationship with their mother.
We pray for those who are orphaned or abandoned and long for a mother’s love
Lord in your mercy, mother them with your love.
May all of us have the comfort of knowing that your mothering love is constant,
your understanding is perfect,
your compassion is never-ending.
Lord in your mercy mother us all with your love.
Amen
This prayer was inspired by and adapted from these mother’s day prayers.
Celebrating with Mum
Sunday is Mother’s Day and this is the first I have celebrated since my mother’s death. I am not the only one. It seems to me that in the last year many of my friends have lost mothers. We are still grieving and facing a day like this brings back those memories. In some ways it is harder because others are celebrating the joy of being together with their mothers.
Fortunately this day does not just bring back memories of loss. It also brings back memories of joy. I sat here this morning remembering some of my happiest memories of times with my Mum over the last 60 year. I remember her playing with my brothers and me in our backyard when we were kids. I remember her making dresses for me, and teaching me to cook. I remember the trips we took together over the last few years since my Dad died, and I remember the good but painful days I spent at her bedside in those last few days of her life.
Last year for her 90th birthday I put together a memories book for Mum, not realizing that it would become such an important memory book for me too. I will probably look through it many times this weekend laughing, crying and remembering the specialness of my Mum.
These are not the only memories that this day has stirred. Strangely I find myself grieving for the motherhood I have never and will never know. This grief has caught me unawares this morning. And I think of my many friends who like me will never have children and for whom the memories of Mother’s day are not necessarily happy. I think too of those who have never known their birth mothers and who still struggle with issues of abandonment. Being separated from our mothers leaves wounds from which I don’t think we ever fully heal.
Fortunately my thoughts do not stop there. There are many for whom I have played a mothering role. Even my little brother called me yesterday acknowledging that I am his surrogate mother for this season. There are others that I have mentored through hard times. And still others whose lives I have nurtured as I worked in the refugee camps in Thailand and handed out medicines in Africa.
Lastly I am remembering those who have mothered me in the past especially Nan Cowie and Margaret Murray in New Zealand and Nettie Burge on the ship. All of us need mothering, no matter what our age and stage in life and God so often provides even when our own mothers are far away.
So this Mother’s day whether you celebrate with Mum or apart from her, take time to remember. Celebrate the joy of who she and at the same time celebrate your own mothering (or fathering) role. These kinds or relationships are central to our faith and to our lives.
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