Kristen Leigh Kludt —
Advent is a season of anticipation, of waiting in the mess of now for the joy, blessing and healing to come. I feel the anticipation in my bones.
A child grows within me, his or her movements stronger and more pronounced with every passing day. One day soon, in a glorious mess of pain and effort, she or he will enter the world. I am ready.
Today I look down from the office where I write and I see Everett on the preschool playground. He is running, running, running, and soon there is a mob of kids, all running, running, running as fast as their little legs can take them. He is so excited to meet our baby, though he has little knowledge of what this change will mean for his world. What a privilege to watch him, unseen, from this distance.
Some days I am anxious. On Friday I felt the imminence of birth in the persistent squeeze of my belly. I slept little, waiting for the pain to strike at any moment, but it didn’t come. I woke in the morning and the feeling had passed.
I stand at a threshold; everything in my life is about to change. How do I linger well in now?
Tonight, Dave and I will go to a movie. Tomorrow, dinner with friends. I will watch Everett intently, hold him close, share with him the intensity of focus that I know is about to change. I also know that I will love him all the more as he becomes a big brother; my heart, like my ligaments, is stretching, shifting, making room.
Paula D’Arcy writes of going to the woods this time of year. “In the woods, nothing rushes. The woods laugh that any date on a calendar seems more real or important than this very morning…. The woods teach me that the only entry point to divine love is now. This moment is all there is.”
Here, now, is the place we meet God.
I feel the coming change in my bones as they shift and bend, opening a path. They ache with the effort of preparation. And yet, now is all I have.
I take a deep breath, feel the air stretch my lungs. I watch the bare branches sway outside. I look down and see Everett climb onto a tricycle and ride in loops around the playground.
I am grateful. I am full.
Kristen’s first book, A Good Way Through: My Journey with God from Disappointment into Hope will be available February 21, 2017.
Reposted from Kristen’s blog from Advent 2015
Gregory Nelson —
It is 5 AM in the Pacific Northwest and I am listening to the ancient choral music of Thomas Tallis in my den. Each morning I light three candles in front of a small wooden cross on my bookshelf. Above the cross is an impressionist painting of four dancers – a reminder that in our incarnation we dance with the Trinity.
All of this is sacred space to me. There is nothing magical about the collection that makes up my room – pulled apart and scattered into other rooms these ‘sacred objects’ become quite ordinary and most likely overlooked amidst the busyness of life. It is the intentional pulling together and visitation that creates space for the sacred.
I am hoping that you are reading Godspace today because you too find sacredness in the intentional gathering of voices that make up this blog. I am also trusting that you will consider helping support this space that you intentionally visit.
Will you buy us a cup of coffee?Thank you,
If each of you who regularly read the blog could symbolically “buy the team a cup of coffee or a beer” once a month, Godspace will be able to not only carry on its mission but have the necessary resources to cultivate new voices and readership.
Whether it is $5, €5 or £5, your monthly support at the table will make all the difference.
Thank you,
Gregory Nelson
Board member, Mustard Seed Associates
He was smiling ear to ear when I opened the door. “What’s up? Why the big smile?” I asked. “I did it!” he replied. “Did what?” I asked. “I overcame my fear of your door!” he said triumphantly.
As it turns out, this young man had been coming over to visit another young friend who was living with us at the time. Every time he arrived he would stand out on the sidewalk and text his friend inside our house to come out and get him. I had no idea this was going on.
“What do you mean, you overcame your fear of our door?” I asked. “Your house scares me,” he said. “It’s so peaceful.”
As we talked further I learned that life was not so great at his house, and he never had experienced such peace just coming into someone’s home. It was such a foreign experience for him that he didn’t know how to respond.
I think back on this story as I’m reflecting on our theme “Entering the world with Jesus, in our homes”. What does it look like to welcome Jesus into our home? I imagine it means that people who enter will discover peace. Our home isn’t always a place of peace. It’s often chaotic. And now that our oldest son, his wife, and our seven-month-old granddaughter are also living here, it seems the activity never ceases. But we’re still a house of peace. Why?
Shalom is at the root of our English word, peace. It is not just safety, but also flourishing, wholeness, and abundance. If Jesus, the prince of Shalom, enters our homes, what does that mean for others who pass through our doors?
One of the areas my wife and I have worked to cultivate in our lives is being open and welcoming. This begins by affirming through our actions and interactions that the image of God is present in all people. We all need that image to be coaxed out of its shell, some more than others. All of us are a reflection of God’s image waiting to be more fully revealed.
This is our desired attitude. Sometimes we live into it well, other times not so much. But a house of peace, of Shalom, is a place where everyone is welcome and everyone is encouraged to grow more fully into who God created them to be.
There is a Celtic belief that we are to be God’s words spoken back to God through our lives.
Like each of us, Jesus came as a unique person enfleshed to bring Glory to God. He was likely born in the in-house stable area of an extended family member’s home. This would have been a Jewish family with all the do’s and don’ts of any good Jewish family. Although the stable area was a distinct part of the house, it was still part of the house.
Now imagine when the Shepherds arrived. Those smelly outcasts of Jewish society. They were welcomed in to greet the baby. Jesus was already changing the expectations of welcoming others into our homes — even those who make us uncomfortable.
The circumstances surrounding Jesus’ birth foretell the purpose of his coming. At the beginning of his ministry, Jesus stood in the temple and read from the scroll of the prophet Isaiah. Echoing Mary’s song of renewal and release, Jesus declared the year of Jubilee had finally arrived. Those held in bondage would be set free, debts would be forgiven, restoration and healing were at hand.
Welcoming Jesus into our homes is not just about being open to everyone who comes in, but also about actively standing with them through the process of wholeness. We become conduits of God’s healing presence. We become advocates and friends to those who enter yet are bound up by fear, hatred, anger, and deep wounds. Entering the world with Jesus is to allow Jesus free reign in and through our lives when the world enters our homes.
I write this knowing full well that I have not even come close to living fully into this vision. But this is the beginning of another season of Advent, another opportunity to reflect on the coming of Jesus – Jesus revealed in the world now through the lives of his followers. It might be easier to lament my failings, but how much more welcoming to Jesus would it be to embrace his incarnation as an invitation to love more deeply all who come into my home?
The Word made flesh spoken back to God through homes and lives filled with shalom.
This is my Advent prayer.
In 1981, a futurist/lecturer/writer/evangelical activist named Tom Sine published a book that sent many in that generation, including my wife and me, on a new life course. The book gave insight into an astonishing secret — that “God has chosen to change the world through the lowly, the unassuming, and the imperceptible”, like a mustard seed that is the smallest of all the seeds on earth but grows to become the greatest of all shrubs. Tom called God’s strategy “the conspiracy of the insignificant”, and he extended God’s invitation to each of us to join this Mustard Seed Conspiracy.
In the years since, Tom and Christine Sine have together created an international network of Jesus followers who are planting mustard seeds of faith and imagination around the world.
Through their many books, speaking appearances, blog posts, conferences, and warm gatherings in their home, Tom and Christine have impacted thousands of lives. Now they’re passing the baton on to the next generation. This is our opportunity to say “Thanks” and to make sure their Mustard Seed vision stays alive.
A big part of this effort is Giving Tuesday — TODAY
Giving Tuesday is the beginning of a month-long campaign to provide a solid financial foundation for Mustard Seed Associates and Godspace for the coming year.
Please donate today and help us effectively navigate this season of transition as we move boldly forward. Your Giving Tuesday donations will help kick off this event, encouraging others to join the party to connect and inspire the next generation of leaders.
Here are a few things your gift will make possible:
- Developing and delivering new workshops around the themes of spirituality, sustainability, hospitality, community and justice
- Updating the Godspace Community Blog to efficiently support more content and provide better collaboration
- Developing new Camano Island partnerships in transformation, education, imagination, and innovation
- Simplifying and updating our accounting system to be more efficient and transparent
- Streamlining our office to allow our team to work locally and act globally
A special thank you gift to our first twenty $100 contributors
I’ve created a brand new calendar based on our popular “Praying with Nature” prayer card set. Each month features a different photo of God’s beautiful creation along with a brief reflection.
Measuring 11″x17″, it includes Christian holidays, feast days for our favorite saints, US holidays, and other significant dates recognized by MSA/Godspace with space to spare for you to write in your own appointments.
How you can help:
- Be generous with your donations on Giving Tuesday and beyond
- Share our campaign through your social media channels, using #GivingTuesday and on Twitter, @msaImagine
- Encourage others to give and to get involved
- Pray often: for the transition, for our Board, for Tom and Christine, and for this giving campaign
Thank you for supporting us over the years. You are the “Associates” in Mustard Seed Associates. Even more, you are mustard seed changemakers and friends.
Shalom,
Andy Wade
Director
Mustard Seed Associates // Godspace
It is the beginning of Advent and we have begun that season of waiting for the arrival of the Christ child. But where will we welcome him? Do we really want him taking up residence in our homes or is easier to relegate him to the stable, to see him as an outsider, not really part of the family? Seeing Jesus in an out of the way place where disreputable people like shepherds can come to worship without us having to worry about them messing up our homes makes life easy for us. We get that glow that tells us Jesus is here but there is very little commitment required of us.
What will it take for us to really welcome Jesus into our homes this Christmas season?
Let’s recognize Jesus as a part of our family.
I have friends who always leave an empty chair at the dinner table when they hold a festive meal. It is a symbol of the fact that Jesus is the unseen guest at all our meals, the family member who is always present even when we cannot see him. It makes me wonder if at this time of year we should set up the manager in the centre of our dining room tables in preparation for the birth of a baby into our families, a constant reminder that Jesus came to be a part of our family and welcome us into God’s eternal family.
Let’s be willing to invite all those who come with him.
They too are part of our family. We cannot welcome Jesus without also extending our hand of welcome to those who gather round the manger – the disreputable and despised, the foreigners and aliens.
These days when a baby is born many young couples keep it cloistered away for the first couple of months, afraid that it will be exposed to germs that it has no immunity to. Most parents would certainly not welcome those who came to see Jesus – first the animals and then the homeless shepherds who slept in the fields at night. Who do we exclude from our families because we are afraid they will contaminate us amd the babies in our midst?
A couple of years ago after reading Kenneth Bailey’s book Jesus Through Middle Eastern Eyes I wrote this post for Advent Stable, Inn Or Welcoming Home: Where Was Jesus Born and Why Does It Matter? I was so impacted by the idea that Jesus was born into a welcoming family rather than a stable that I followed it up the following year by hosting a series on who we would invite to the manger. As a result of that, one of the reflections in our new devotional A Journey Toward Home, is about the French custom of santons, in which clay models of villagers are positioned around the manger bringing their gifts to the Christ child.
I love this idea of all our neighbours, those we enjoy and those we don’t want to have anything to do with, clustered around the manger, invited into that place of intimate hospitality with God. I encourage all of us to consider creating our own “santons” this Advent and Christmas season, santons of words, photos, and actions, not figures of clay.
I am more convinced than ever that it matters a lot where we think Jesus was born, who was with him and how we relate to him.
What is Your Response.
Sit and think about what kind of Jesus you are waiting for this Advent season. Visualize this baby being born into your family. How would be be welcomed? Who would be welcomed with him? Who would not be welcomed into the family circle around him.
So as we light the first candle of Advent, the candle of hope, listen to Kathy Troccoli as she encourages us to go light our world because, as she says we are a family.
It is the beginning of Advent and we have begun that season of waiting for the arrival of the Christ child. But where will we welcome him? Do we really want him taking up residence in our homes or is easier to relegate him to the stable, to see him as an outsider, not really part of the family? Seeing Jesus in an out of the way place where disreputable people like shepherds can come to worship without us having to worry about them messing up our homes makes life easy for us. We get that glow that tells us Jesus is here but there is very little commitment required of us.
What will it take for us to really welcome Jesus into our homes this Christmas season?
Let’s recognize Jesus as a part of our family.
I have friends who always leave an empty chair at the dinner table when they hold a festive meal. It is a symbol of the fact that Jesus is the unseen guest at all our meals, the family member who is always present even when we cannot see him. It makes me wonder if at this time of year we should set up the manager in the centre of our dining room tables in preparation for the birth of a baby into our families, a constant reminder that Jesus came to be a part of our family and welcome us into God’s eternal family.
Let’s be willing to invite all those who come with him.
They too are part of our family. We cannot welcome Jesus without also extending our hand of welcome to those who gather round the manger – the disreputable and despised, the foreigners and aliens.
These days when a baby is born many young couples keep it cloistered away for the first couple of months, afraid that it will be exposed to germs that it has no immunity to. Most parents would certainly not welcome those who came to see Jesus – first the animals and then the homeless shepherds who slept in the fields at night. Who do we exclude from our families because we are afraid they will contaminate us amd the babies in our midst?
A couple of years ago after reading Kenneth Bailey’s book Jesus Through Middle Eastern Eyes I wrote this post for Advent Stable, Inn Or Welcoming Home: Where Was Jesus Born and Why Does It Matter? I was so impacted by the idea that Jesus was born into a welcoming family rather than a stable that I followed it up the following year by hosting a series on who we would invite to the manger. As a result of that, one of the reflections in our new devotional A Journey Toward Home, is about the French custom of santons, in which clay models of villagers are positioned around the manger bringing their gifts to the Christ child.
I love this idea of all our neighbours, those we enjoy and those we don’t want to have anything to do with, clustered around the manger, invited into that place of intimate hospitality with God. I encourage all of us to consider creating our own “santons” this Advent and Christmas season, santons of words, photos, and actions, not figures of clay.
I am more convinced than ever that it matters a lot where we think Jesus was born, who was with him and how we relate to him.
What is Your Response.
Sit and think about what kind of Jesus you are waiting for this Advent season. Visualize this baby being born into your family. How would be be welcomed? Who would be welcomed with him? Who would not be welcomed into the family circle around him.
So as we light the first candle of Advent, the candle of hope, listen to Kathy Troccoli as she encourages us to go light our world because, as she says we are a family.
On Advent Sunday, as we ready ourselves to remember the infant-birth arrival on earth of our Lord and Saviour, the first candle is lit on an Advent wreath as an emblem of our faith. It’s a sign offering hope to all while they make their way through this world’s darkness, and a glowing reminder of the luminous Light of Christ in our lives.
Preparation of home and heart begins to mark the season, leading to our Christmas Day celebrations. Candles burning brightly in a house suggests a warm welcome is being offered. Our homes are meant to be habitations of the heart, places of solace and welcome. Sadly, like many others, I didn’t define“home” quite like that as a child.
Ours was a lonely place I longed to escape from, a site of verbal fights, resentful chill and an abiding air of animosity. I ached inside for genuine love and affection, for the right kind of attention. Maybe a soul is always seeking such things—a haven of peace and rest to feel happy in, a place where we are loved just as we are.
Whether it’s a mud hut or a mansion, I believe a home is more about relationship than bricks and mortar. It should be a safe place, a shelter and sanctuary, though life can be cruel and a family not all you hoped they would be. Ideally, home should be where empty hearts, as well as empty bellies, get filled. A place of belonging, a space to be accepted, be yourself, be loved, and receive a warm welcome that never gets worn out.
As I mull over ways to make room for Jesus in this season, I marvel at God Incarnate making His home on earth, inviting us now to open our hearts and homes to Him. Jesus took on frail human flesh, identified completely with our weakness, and issued an awesome invitation:
God’s home is always open to the hurt and the broken, the lost and the lonely, the homeless and orphaned, the rootless and forgotten, those needing saving from themselves, requiring rescue and release. There is no rejection here, only unconditional love.
Heaven’s only begotten Son becomes our Saviour, Brother, Friend. We are adopted into God’s family, made heirs with Christ, become children of Hope and Promise, as Holy Spirit lives within us. How does this shape our attitude to Advent? We actively remember Jesus coming to earth and we search for signs of Him with us in the here and now.
Steep descent
Watch, wait, wonder
and ponder anew
the steep descent
of Love breaking through
to our humanity
bringing light, hope
and clarity to see
how much Father God
desires to be reunited
with you and me
©JoyLenton2016
We look for the Light of His presence in a world growing darker by the day, our hopes ignited by the thought of our Forever Home and Jesus’ glorious reappearing to come. And so we read, reflect, ponder and pray, decorate, celebrate and contemplate the wonder of it all.
Most of all, we make room to receive Jesus anew. Let Him be born again in our thankful hearts. We offer Him a home, a place to feel welcome, a heart journeying ever closer to the spiritual homeland of His presence and a mind engaged more on the heavenly and eternal than the temporary and temporal.
Here’s a helpful link you might like to check out if the practice of lighting Advent candles is new for you, as it is for me. It explains about the candles’ symbolism and suggests why we might enjoy participating in this practice, especially as a family activity. And here’s a lovely Advent candle liturgy from the Godspace archives that you could use as well.
What does the word “home”conjure up for you?
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