by Diane Woodrow, originally published on Aspirational Adventures
I’ve been having a quiet rant to God on behalf of a friend. I’m not sure if she’s ranting too but I am. Last week her youngest daughter gave birth to her first child in her early 40’s after years of trying; miscarriages, IVF, etc. But then at the start of this week my friend’s dad died suddenly. It isn’t fair, I am shouting into the heavens. Why can’t her and her family enjoy the awesomeness of this miracle baby just for a few months without having to deal with grief? Why???
The season in GodspaceLight is gratitude, and I know I’ve also written about gratitude on here in various guises, but my thought for today is “how can I/we be genuinely grateful when life is being unfair? “
But then as I walked the dog in the park this morning I experience the second awesome sunrise of this week and also had a heron fly from the pond almost directly in front of me. It got me thinking – I only get to see the sunrises on my dog walks now because the days are getting shorter, daylight hours are getting less. And I can marvel at how there are amazing colours in the sky for a good 20-30 mins before the sun rises officially. Even if I get up in the summer really early the sun doesn’t do that same thing of filling the sky with colour and light earlier than it pops its head up. If it wasn’t for that shortening of daylight hours I wouldn’t get to see this. So a place to be grateful when the dark is getting more?
Also what I felt when all this was going on around me is that yes life isn’t fair but there are good things going on in the unfairness. It reminds me of the fact that the trip to Paris to launch my daughter into university was marred because my father-in-law died that same weekend, so when I look at the picture of her grinning over a very very frothy cappuccino I think of his death too. Life throwing one of its unfair curveballs.
So all I can say about how to be grateful when life is being unfair is to accept and grieve in the unfair bits, the death bits, the darkness, but also be grateful in the sunrises, the births, the trips to Paris.
Both are allowed. Both are ok. It is not ‘either or’ but ‘both and’.
A few years ago I supported another friend though the first year after her husband’s suicide and we cried lots but we also laughed lots. We were able to be ‘both and’. Even now when we meet we do both – laughing and crying – more often than not in a public place
So I will hug my friend as she grieves and laugh with her as she delights in her new granddaughter. Together we can accept that life isn’t fair and that there are sunrises and there are sunsets. Some things are beautiful and some things are tragic. That we do not live in a world where only good happens and somethings we have to deal with both things at once. But we can do it!
And for that whole humanness of who we are I will be grateful
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God sees us not as problems to be solved or broken objects to be repaired but beauty on the way to being formed. Sin, then, is what keeps us in a posture of resisting God’s desire for creating beauty in, with, and through us. His desire is for us to join him in creating and adding to the beauty we are becoming, which transforms the world around us into much the shame. (The Soul of Desire, Curt Thompson 43)
The Soul of Desire
The Soul of Desire by Curt Thompson is the most impactful book that I have read for a long time and this week my devotional times and reflections revolved around my daily readings from it. Can you imagine what a difference it would make in our lives if we saw ourselves not as problems to be solved or broken objects to be repaired but as beauty on the way to being formed? And not just any random kind of beauty either, or the false beauty that Hollywood and social media tell us we should try to create, but the beauty of the glorious divine image which is slowly being recreated in each of us. We cannot see what that beautiful picture will look like when it is complete, but God often reveals the next step, the next brushstroke, the next tiny facet of beauty in that image. That is such a revolutionary and wonderful thought.
Each day, in fact in each moment, God is creating beauty. I am very grateful for the beauty God has already created in me. I am grateful for the beauty God is creating in me, around me and through me. I am grateful for the broken places that create beauty through their mending. I am grateful that this image of God within me is only one tiny facet of who God is. The full beauty of God is only revealed as all God’s creatures are restored together . Then we will not just see the beauty of God but the beauty of the eternal world God is giving birth to.
Curt Thompson asks his clients who are often struggling with their own inner demons or with relational breakdowns, “What is the next beautiful thing you want to create?” Instead I found myself asking two related questions that I heartily encourage you to ask yourself:
What are some of the beautiful things God has already created in me? We so often focus on what still needs to be repaired and made beautiful and fail to notice the beauty that already emerged from deep within us. I am aware this week that God has gifted me with a heart of generosity and hospitality; a gift for writing; a delight in nature and the joy of preserving and restoring it where possible; a desire for a more sustainable way of life for us and for others. Identifying these small gifts of beauty already present within me makes it much easier to think about what beauty might still need to be created from the broken places still within.
What is the next beautiful thing God wants to create in me? This is a great question to ask in the midst of hard transitions because it endues a sense of purpose and positivity to the transitions. God’s desire for the future is beauty, not ugliness and destruction.
Asking about the beauty God might want to create sounds simple–but of course it isn’t. We must recognize that God’s beauty is indeed created. It doesn’t come ready-packaged and fast delivered from Amazon. We – like God in the creation of Adam – are expected to get down in the mud, get our hands dirty and work hard on the creative process. First there is the dreaming and imagining process (I wonder, does God spend the nights dreaming about the next act of creation?). Then there is the listening phase. Listening to our bodies, and our souls, to our God and our communities. It requires vulnerability and a willingness to both make mistakes and also admit to the mistakes we have made in the past. Sometimes we need to compromise, be willing to change direction and possibly make painful adjustments to what we hear in the listening times. It requires a commitment to seeing the process through to the end, not stopping when the beauty is slow in being birthed and all we can see is the trauma of the process.
Given the cultural dominance of a left-mode manner of attuning to the world, we do not have much experience practicing imagining, much less anticipating, that one of our primary callings in life is to create icons of beauty…. The Soul of Desire, Curt Thompson
What Is Your Response?
Sit quietly in the presence of God. Think about the beauty God has already created in you. You might like to close your eyes, doodle or knit to help you focus. Don’t be shy. Don’t allow your mind to dwell on what still needs to be repaired or recreated. Think only of the beauty. As God brings things to mind write them down. Pray over your list and thank God for the beauty already created.
Now think ahead. What is one thing of beauty you think God wants to create in you in the future? If nothing comes to mind don’t despair. Take time each day to sit quietly in the presence of God. Read through the list of beautiful things already in your life. Write down what you learned through your reading, listening, and creative activities yesterday, and then ask yourself: What is the next beautiful thing God wants to create in me? At some point, I suspect, God will unveil a vision of possible beauty that will take your breath away. This is an exciting exercise to do in a community group where you can listen to and support each other’s exploration of the beautiful things God wants to create in each of you either individually or together.
God I thank you for beauty,
In me, around me, through me.
I thank you for that which is already present,
For that which is being birthed,
And for that which is yet to come.
May I listen with my ears,
With my heart,
And with my community,
To what you are creating.
May it take root and grow.
May it bud and flower
And produce fruit,
In me, around me, through me.
Christine Sine (October 2021)
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A contemplative service with music in the spirit of Taize. Carrie Grace Littauer, prayer leader, with music by Kester Limner and Andy Myers.
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by Tom Sine
Originally published on New Changemakers
“Since January 2019, the Southern Baptists alone have responded to 136 disasters across the country: hurricanes and tornadoes, wildfires and floods, with more likely on the way.
Between their recent responses to Sally and Laura, the hurricanes that scoured the Texas and Louisiana coasts in late August and early September, the Baptists had prepared almost half a million meals, put nearly 300 temporary roofs on storm-damaged homes, cleared trees from 2,300 more...” Smietana, Bob “White Christian America built a faith-based safety net. What happens when it’s gone?” Religion News Service 10/26/2020
A number of denominations including not only the Southern Baptists but Methodists, Presbyterians, Catholics, and Lutherans all have voluntary disaster response organizations. The largest of these organizations are “the 80,000 Southern Baptists who have been trained in disaster relief making them one of the largest volunteer disaster relief organizations in the country.” Ibid Religion News Service
As we race into the turbulent 2020s we are no longer in ordinary changing times. Suddenly we find ourselves racing into a decade of accelerating change. One of the most daunting challenges we are facing is not only rapidly increasing environmental disasters like Sally and Laura; we are also facing an alarming decline in the number of faith-based relief organizations.
As Pew Research has been communicating to church leaders in the US, for the past decade the church has been graying and declining because Gen Y & Z {the under 42}, by a concerning number, are no longer going to affiliate with our churches. All the pastors I work with are fully aware of the graying and declining of the church.
However, I find most pastors are surprised and disappointed, as some members began to return to their sanctuaries during the pandemic, not only by the decline in attendance. Pastors are particularly concerned by the decline in giving and volunteering for community service….like disaster relief.
Clearly, we are likely to encounter a growing number of environmental crises–so we really need to see the church-based disaster agencies significantly increase the capacity for a compassionate response as we race into this troubled decade. However, given the graying and declining of the major denominations that support these critically important disaster relief agencies, this seems to be in serious peril.
During this daunting pandemic, many local congregations have created an array of feeding programs and a few have even created community gardens with their most vulnerable neighbors. However, given the current graying and declining of the church in North America, I suspect our capacity for all forms of compassionate response could significantly decline as we race into the 2030s.
It’s here! As promised, Gearing Up for a Season of Gratitude is now available as an online course! Inspired by the celebrations of Canadian Thanksgiving at the beginning of October and American Thanksgiving at the end of November, we designate October and November as gratitude months on Godspace Light. Lilly Lewin and Christine Sine will encourage you to get ready by providing a collaborative retreat process that will help us enter this season of gratitude with joy and delight in our hearts. This course provides a fun process of interaction, creativity, and reflection.
How do we approach the world with gratitude and delight even in the midst of the most challenging situations? What if gratitude is more than an emotion? What can we do to bring more gratitude into our daily lives? These are some of the questions we grapple with as we look ahead to the changing seasons. What are your questions about gratitude? Join us and explore them in this interactive mini-retreat “Gearing up for a Season of Gratitude”.
All Saints Day has been celebrated since the 600s AD, and days to honor Christian martyrs started in the 300s. Depending upon your denomination or faith tradition, you may or may not have heard of it–or participated in a worship service where those who have died are remembered, and where we give thanks for those who have inspired us throughout the ages.
All Saints Day is a great time to remember family and friends who have died in the past year. It’s also a time to honor and remember people who have impacted our lives who have gone to be with God. While All Saint’s Day is traditionally on November 1st, you could celebrate this anytime around the beginning of November or as a part of your Thanksgiving celebration as a family or small group.
Here are a couple of PRAYER STATION ideas that you can do at home or with your entire Church Community or youth group.
CREATE A PRAYER TREE: you can use a Light Up Tree, like these found on Amazon or like in the
photo above. We used an artificial ficus tree that was already in the worship space and added white Christmas lights (soft not LED). We had a basket of sharpie markers of various colors and mailing tags from office depot/staples that already had string in them to use to tie them on the branches.
You can also create a tree with a few large branches (without leaves) stuck securely in a bucket and make tags out of colorful index cards or even print off various shaped leaves, punch a hole in the top and add some yarn…then these card tags or leaves can be added to the tree branches.
Have enough tags for everyone to have at least 2 apiece.
ALL SAINTS FAMILY TREE: The focus of the station is on the people who have encouraged our faith or the people who have inspired us to draw closer to Jesus
SIGN/Directions: Hebrews 12:1-8 Print out the passage and/or use it as your family devotion or as the basis of your sermon/talk.
If you do this as a family or small group, rather than as a prayer station, pass around a basket filled with tags and sharpie markers or pens for everyone to do this together.
You can also do this as a “Corporate Response” where your entire church community participates together rather than doing it individually as a prayer station. Have the tree set up in the front or back of the worship space and have the tags in the seats or pews or pass around a basket with the supplies.
FAMILY TREE (PRINT out this as directions for station or read aloud to have everyone participate together)
Consider all the people who have encouraged you to seek Jesus. Think about the people in your life, family, friends, teachers, youth leaders, neighbors, etc who have helped you along the way in your journey with Jesus or along your faith journey. These people might even be ones you’ve read about in books.
NOTE: if doing this as a corporate response, give people time to pray and time to write down their responses. Don’t hurry.
ACTION:
Part 1: WRITE their names on the tags and pray for them. Thank God for their lives and ask God to show you more of how they have impacted your life.
TIE THE TAG ON THE TREE (Or, have everyone come up to do this after the sermon, or following communion if done corporately. Or, they could do this on the way out of church)
Part 2: Now think of someone in your life who needs to know the love of God…who may need encouragement on his/her journey with Jesus. Write that person’s name on a tag and take it home with you. Hang it somewhere where you will be reminded to pray for that person. Ask God to help you inspire and encourage this person to know God better and ask God to help you to inspire others around you in the coming weeks.
This idea can carry on to THANKSGIVING and make it a THANKSGIVING TREE:
Continue the prayer tree idea …you can take off the names of the” saints” or you can add to the tags on the tree. If you used only one color of tags for the SAINTS tree, you might use a different color for the Thanksgiving tags.
SIGN/directions:
Philippians 4:6-7
Thanksgiving is a lost holiday in our culture…it sadly gets lost between Halloween candy and Christmas decorations and shopping. Yet we are called to give thanks as Jesus gave thanks.
So what are you thankful for today? What are some great things or some little things that you can see as gifts of God and thank God for today?
Give everyone time to pray and write.
ACTION :
Write your prayers on the tag and hang them on the tree. THANK Jesus for the things he has given you and ask Jesus to give you eyes to see the blessings and gifts he is giving you each week. and Ask God to help you be more grateful in the days ahead.
The Thanksgiving tree can be added to each day if you are doing it at home, or each time you meet if you are creating it with your small group or in your Worship community.
You can create the station in the narthex or entryway to the worship space or set up the tree in the sanctuary and add to it after communion or as you leave worship. Also, encourage people to write down what they are thankful for during the week and bring this to your worship gathering to add to the tree.
You could also have people bring in framed photos for their “saints” to share with each other. They could put the photos on a table or even near the altar to honor the people who have impacted their lives or the people they want to remember or honor on All Saints Day.
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Transitions mean change. They are always challenging, sometimes painful. We want to hold onto the familiar and the comforting. The leeks and garlic of Egypt, all that sustained us in our past lives, beckon us. And no matter what our circumstances are at the moment, the one thing that seems obvious is that the future will be different and we need to adapt.
Change is usually marked by deliberate steps we take that say life is going to be different. Jesus marked his move into adulthood (at the age of 12) by staying behind in Jerusalem to ask questions of the religious leaders (Luke 3:46). He inaugurated his ministry with 40 days in the desert (Luke 4:2) and marked his transition towards the cross by a deliberate and determined walk towards Jerusalem (Luke 9:51). Jesus knew when it was time to say “Life is going to be different in the future, it is time to let go of the past and look towards the future.” He knew exactly how to prepare for those changes.
We are about to transition into a new season – in the church calendar out of Ordinary time, into Advent and Christmas, in the seasonal calendar out of spring into summer in the Southern hemisphere and autumn into winter here in the Northern hemisphere. Godspace is also going through transition as we say goodbye to Lisa and welcome to Melissa.
Many of you, I know are also transitioning into new stages in your lives. Some are returning to the workplace after a year spent at home. Others are starting new jobs, or facing the reality of loved ones you will never see again. Others are moving across the country or even across the world.
Whatever the changes we are facing transitions are never easy.
Transitions require us to identify the stability points that will not change.
The place to start as we face transition is not with – what is changing but what is not changing. What are the stability points that keep me strong throughout change?
Part of what I have reflected on over the last few weeks is the foundations of my faith in the goodness of God, the bedrock of my life that I know should not change. I need the security of knowing that not everything will change. I need to be able to stand firm in my faith as well as in my important relationships.
I wish we talked more about the stability of practice. Regular daily, weekly and yearly practices that restore our bodies, our souls and our spirits are essential for all of us especially during transition seasons and I don’t think we realize how much the loss of these impacts us. What are the practices that stabilize our lives as the world around us changes? How do we get ready for the winter blasts? What practices store up spiritual food for the dark seasons that always seem to accompany transition times?
Question: What do you need to hold onto that will strengthen your faith and beckon you towards God’s love?
Transitions require deliberate steps towards change.
It is easy to settle into the familiar patterns of the past and not consciously work towards the changes God wants us to make. Routines provide comfort for us and when they change we are often disoriented and destabilized. Suddenly there are lots of new options out there. We don’t know what we should do. It is easier to look back than to look forward. Deliberately working towards change is a very important and at times painful journey.
Question: What do we long for that we should let go of?
Transitions require the creation of new boundaries and new rituals.
When Tom and I stepped down from the leadership of Mustard Seed Associates about five years ago we embarked on a major remodel in our house. As part of that remodel I moved the desk in my office so that it is not longer the focal point. My space became first a sacred space and secondarily a work space. It was part of the transition, part of the establishing of new boundaries and new rituals and one of the best decisions I ever made. It provided a new environment that has become more precious over the years.
Then we went on a major trip for our 25th wedding anniversary, taking 6 weeks off to travel Europe, visit some of our favourite people and places and set boundaries around what had been and what was to come. We both came back refreshed, renewed and ready to start on new things.
As we face yet another major transition we are once more remodelling – this time our basement apartment which has hardly been touched since the 1970s. In the process we are losing a large storage room and so I need to throw out items I will never use again – clothes, boxes of material, old books, and who knows what else that is hidden in the recesses of that room. It’s painful but necessary and in the long run will be liberating.
Question: What changes may be necessary in your physical environment to prepare for the spiritual changes ahead?
Transitions mean listening
One of the hardest aspects of transitions can be the need to listen not just through our rituals and rhythms but also through our bodies and through the bodies of our companions. Our health, our age, our changing abilities and the changes going on in the lives of those we are responsible for – like elderly parents, children and grandchildren, friends and house mates – are all part of the reality of change. It’s easy for us to resent limitations when God is saying “embrace them”. We need to listen to such changes and accept the new boundaries they may impose on us as gifts from God. Sometimes we need to grieve for what we or our loved ones are no longer capable of. Sometimes we need to gain new perspectives on all of life.
Question: What change in your health or health of family members is a major consideration in your response to the transitions you are facing?
Transitions require space and time for dreaming new dreams.
Transition time is busy time. It is easy to fill our days without really thinking about the future. Sometimes the dreams that moved us towards transition seem to get lost in the process.
We need to take to time to breathe, to sit still and reflect. Clearing our calendars for a season, going on retreat, taking time to allow God to renew and refocus us is essential.
Question: What space is necessary for dreaming new dreams for the future?
Transitions require companions for the journey.
As part of our transition five years ago, I engaged with a new spiritual director and a life coach to help me move into this new season of my life. I also read a lot and sort the counsel of a broad array of friends and wise counsellors. I had lots of ideas that I think are from God but realize that I cannot move into the journey God has for me without help. Some of those ideas have been lost and will never be fulfilled, others are slowly coming to fruition.
As we head into transition again, I need to take time for the same kind of advice and discernment. We all need companions who can walk beside us, as well as those who can guide and help direct us into new seasons of life.
Question: Who are the companions and advisors that help you through transition?
Transitions cannot be rushed.
When I go through major transition season I always hope for a brief, though sometimes painful phase and then hope everything will settle down again without too much hassle. However I know from experience that transitions usually take months if not years It is easy to get impatient, to try to give birth prematurely. This is not a season to hurry through. The season between conception and birth is essential. It should be savoured and even after, there is a long and sometimes slow season of growth until maturity.
Question: How have we you to hurry the transition process and tried to give birth prematurely?
What is your response?
Sit and reflect on the transitions in your own life. What is God saying to you at this time that could help you through the days ahead?
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by Lisa DeRosa,
Today’s post is bittersweet at best! I have finished my work at Godspace as Daniel and I move to California in a couple of weeks. While I am sad to say goodbye to helping Christine facilitate, create, and edit all that is Godspace, my heart is full of gratitude for this incredible opportunity! I am blessed by the writers and am inspired by their work. There were moments that I knew I received the post at the right time to be able to connect with God in that exact moment. I hope you experienced that with the posts on Godspace as well.
This community of writers is unique, gifted, and truly points me to Jesus. The encouragement and support I received for the work that I did were just beyond what I experienced in other workplaces. Though we communicate over email and the occasional Zoom call, I feel closer to them than folks that I physically worked with in office buildings of my past. Thank you to each individual writer that touched my heart and helped to draw me closer to Jesus. I am eternally grateful and will miss working with you!
My greatest thanks and gratitude goes out to Christine and Tom Sine who not only allowed me to work with them over the last 2+ years, but provided an amazing home and community for us while we lived in Seattle. We plan to carry the legacy of hospitality and spiritual practices that we learned with us to our family and friends in California. Not to mention some yummy recipes and gardening tips! There are so many things that I will miss about our time together, but I hold the memories near and dear to my heart. I could not ask for a better work environment of WiFi that reaches outside in the beautiful garden, coffee and tea prepared for me by the hospitable Christine, and countless hours of petting Goldie (the Sine’s golden retriever) while editing posts. Many, many blessings! I could go on and on, but like the acceptance speeches during award ceremonies, the music comes on and it is time for me to end.
Thank you, all, for the gift that Godspace is and continues to be as it provides ways to love God, love people, and love creation more and more each day.
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