Being Persons of Peace, Worthy of Time

by Christine Sine

by Steve Wickham

from by Andrzej Pobiedzinski. Click photo for original.

“When you enter a house, first say, ‘Peace to this house.’ If someone who promotes peace is there, your peace will rest on them; if not, it will return to you.”

— Luke 10:5-6 (NIV)

I once met a man who, despite appearances that differed, was an incredible person of peace. He wasn’t just laid back and calm. He actually sought to live in harmony in the moments he had with everyone, much to the extent that he would serve someone like me in the integrity of love, and yet he owed me absolutely nothing. He owed nobody anything. He seemed unafraid, and to be without agenda. He never had a grievance. The man was a mystery.

Even as I share I’m sure you have a picture in your mind of a certain someone who reminds you of this man. He is not that unusual. I may have painted him in lines of perfection. He clearly was very flawed, but his character was congruent with abiding peace.

We’ve all encountered the person of peace — the soul who promotes peace; who lives it. Some will have been Christian, some not. Indeed, some of the religious people we’ve encountered haven’t been marked with the shalom of God we can come to expect.

According the Matthaean tradition, consonant with the passage above, the person who promotes peace is a person worthy (Greek: ἄξιος) of us spending our time. This is a person suitable for sharing the gospel. If we were to stay with them, their household would be worthy, because the house would be one of peace, because we would gift that peace to it, as much as that household and person would be gifting to us their peace. This is Jesus’ peace we speak of; something that may be given and received. It is an empowering shalom, or pervading presence of peace between entities, for the overcoming of many guiles and trials.[1]

As Christians serving the gospel we’re to be peace-givers, peace-seekers, peace-receivers, and certainly peace-makers. We’re not to feel guilty for leaving situations that present a waste of our precious time. We’re merchants of the one and only living God; the Lord of peace. If our peace is proven to be thwarted, we must thwart that thwarting.

We’re called to look for the person in our midst who has been readied with the sandals of peace, and to walk in fellowship with them. This is a person worthy of our time. And we ought to be worthy of theirs, too, by being persons of peace, ready to serve in the love of peace.

This peace we speak of here is an intimacy between persons where relationship is free to flow and grow. It has the undertone of the salvation of God about it. The relationship has that rarefied quality of joy, even if in the midst of pain, for the commonalities of oneness shared in the concert of twoness.

There is no guilt to be carried for those fractured relationships we’ve borne. Christ has set us free of needing to bear such a burden. We’re not responsible. If we’ve given what we could to a relationship, and we received no sign back that the effort we put in was deemed worthy, to them, then our time is not worthily spent with them.

We grow in peace when we spend time with people at peace.

And as we spend time with a person at peace we may both grow in our experience of the salvation of God in Christ.

Here’s a final thought:

When we’re persons of peace, we’re worthy of time — ours, theirs and God’s. Only when we’re persons of peace are we actually worthy of the time we’ve been given.

Time is precious. It ought never to be taken for granted. Being persons of peace helps us reconcile the wonders of time, that we live at the cusp of it, in order that we might make the most of it.[2]

May He who granted you your peace enliven it more and more until the coming of Christ.

[1] Jesus said “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” — John 14:27 (NIV)

[2] See Ephesians 5:15-17.

This post is part of our October Shalom series.


Michelle Pittenger October 11, 2016 - 10:24 am

This article sits badly with me today. As one who struggles with anxiety and bipolar disorder I am not always able to achieve the peace you describe. Does this make me unworthy?

stevejwickham October 11, 2016 - 1:33 pm

Hello Michelle, you are definitely worthy, and given your struggles, perhaps worthier than most.

I’m sorry that this article doesn’t help you. I write a fair bit normally about grief and mental illness, and would rather you be encouraged, so I have missed the mark.

Maybe the word in this for us all is to strive–to strive to be the person of peace for others where we can, without expecting anything like perfection of ourselves.

Some days striving will be impossible. I understand that. I feel God does, too. On particularly hard days I have found it good to think that God appreciates my effort to think well, even when I haven’t been able to do that.

Thank you for being honest and gracious in your comment.

Blessings to you, Steve.

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